The other night I went out with a co- worker, we are good freinds. We went out to a club had a few drinks, the next thing i know we were dancing and all of a sudden we were making out. We are both married. Has this hapenned to anyone else?
2006-10-04 06:52:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Decide what is important to you right now. Do you love your husband? Does she love hers?
Cheating with another woman is still cheating. How would you feel if your husband decided to make out with another man?
Do not let this happen again until you have made up your mind which relationship you want to pursue. If you choose this new life, be honest with your husband, and go try to find your happiness.
2006-10-04 06:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by FozzieBear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My bro in law says there are 3 kinds of gays
1) the ones that were assaulted or raped
2) the ones that were born with it
3) the ones that just like the experience or are free in every direction,&sometimes just a phase
I'm not sure I agree with those but... the few friends I have that are gay do actually fall into those categories. But to be honest, it sounds like you just had too much to drink! Here's the tester, do u think about her? Do u like hanging out with her? Or is it completely awkward now
and you don't know what u did? Either way, be true to yourself.
2006-10-04 06:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody "turns into" a homosexual or a lesbian. You're either born that way, or you're not. I think what happened was a combination of the music, the close proximity of the dancing, and the "few drinks"-- especially those. Maybe you're not getting what you need from your marriages, and I'm not referring to sex alone. Could be you need more understanding, companionship, respect, and consideration from your respective husbands.
2006-10-04 07:10:41 · answer #3 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you confused, curious, or both? Same question to your co-worker. Sounds like the alcohol allowed what was inside to be explored and expressed.
Why doncha ask Oprah? She knows a thing or two about that, right?
2006-10-04 06:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by macguffin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wife was watching an episode of Opra the other day about this VERY same thing. After the third child the woman gave up and told her husband she was gay.
Turned out the husband was ALSO gay. ! .
2006-10-04 06:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by bouta45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some strange reason, women tend to get all buzzed up and want to make out. I haven't the slightest clue why some women do this.
Can you imagine eating her snatch? I mean, honestly, Imagine YOU doing it. If that turns you on you may be bi. But you may very well be like all the other silly girls who go "bar bi."
2006-10-04 06:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well sounds to me like you like it-so u could very well be!On the other hand you may be bi-curious! Hell who knows- if it makes you happy go for it-But don't lead another person on-let go of your husband-if she makes you happy! Women tend to know each other inside and out~that's what so wonderful about our relationships,we know how to treat each other.
2006-10-04 08:12:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most women have lesbian tendencies, especially when they get a few drinks in them! LOL! but seriously, if you still want your husband...you aren't a lesbian, just bi-sexual...nothing wrong with that...just means new doors are open to you and your husband! enjoy!
2006-10-04 07:00:47 · answer #8 · answered by bigmammarush 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess you liked it cause u didnt say that u didnt like it. so here is what i would do............
have sex with her. dont tell your husband. find out how u feel about women. and then go from there. it is possible or you could have been just really drunk. but dont mention it to husband until u know for sure. just be true to yourself.
2006-10-04 16:30:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, guys can't be lesbians. Stop living out your sick, twisted fantasies on "answers" by pretending to be a woman and go buy yourself some dainty, lacy underwear, already. (Additional advice: don't clench.)
2006-10-04 08:17:24 · answer #10 · answered by wendy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋