I have always dated women, but thanks to the internet, find myself curious about bisexuality. I find my thoughts only drawn to older men though, not sure why.
I have never acted on this curiousity, and was wondering if there are others with similar feelings? There must be.....
2006-10-04 06:46:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
"bisexual guys always finally turn out to be gays.."
(from sex and the city)
2006-10-04 06:50:11 · answer #1 · answered by doe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in the exact same situation you were in a year ago. I was actually dating a girl and broke up with her to experiment with my bisexuality. My only advice is to take it SLOW. Be safe, make sure that you want to do what you are doing. It might seem like you "need" to have sex with a guy, but I was hurt by a lot of early one night stands. It is better to get to know the person first before jumping into screwing around with them. Try gay.com, but try to make friends not sex buddies. Believe me, it is easy to find sex buddies, but hard to keep them.
2006-10-04 07:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by linkbaseball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Kinsey scale suggests that we all have tendencies to go eithe way, some at higher/lower degrees than others. This does not mean you need to act on this.
Just because you find yourself recently getting a hard on by watching dudes getting it on with eachother doesn't mean you're going to go out and get down and dirty with a dude. Fantasies are just that and some need to remain that.
2006-10-04 06:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many more than you could imagine.
Curiosity is healthy. Repression of one's feelings only leads to serious problems down the road. So, ask questions and try what you're comfortable trying. Be true to youself and learn where your sexuality lies.
Most of all don't be afraid, and don't feel like you have to be labeled as "gay" "straight" "bi" or whatever. Labels discourage the search for truth.
Be happy!
Best wishes in your search...
2006-10-04 07:17:02 · answer #4 · answered by DanZ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say it's pretty normal for a man to want to know what it would be like to be in another role. With a man I too was attracted to old guys
2006-10-04 07:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by Giv-Me-An-Sir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of guys in your exact situtation, and a lot of guys that will be more than glad to help you out on your exploration.
Just please remember to be careful and practice safe sex.
ANd if you plan to be the bottom clean yourself out really good!
2006-10-04 06:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the person. I like in between xP
2016-03-27 04:48:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, oddly enough, your the only one. Weird, huh?
2006-10-04 06:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by buldawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are wanting a father figure
2006-10-04 06:49:19 · answer #9 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will never act on it however.
2006-10-04 06:48:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋