OK so a year ago the girlfriend kissed another guy on the dancefloor of a local club; she was very drunk and had fancied this guy for a long time before we were going out so I let it slide.
Recently I was indirectly introduced to this guy and, holding no grudge, struck up the usual polite small talk to pass the time...the previous incident was left unmentioned. He seemed stand-offish and abrupt but I put it down to awkwardness on his part, or maybe confusion at my good-naturedness- but I genuinely do have nothing against the guy.
Now it turns out he has been slating me, threatening me with violence (behind my back, of course), making fun of me and my size (he is like over six feet tall, amybe 200lbs- I'm half that!) for no reason. It seems strange as shouldn't I be the one doing all this?! The best part is he now has a long term g-friend but still has an unfounded vendetta against me!
What would you do, as he hasn't actually approached me, apart from the odd sneer?!
2006-10-04 06:46:15 · 14 answers · asked by DaveyMcB 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
just ignore the idiot by the sounds of things really not worth bothering about !!!
2006-10-04 06:50:04 · answer #1 · answered by shagkitten21 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He seems an idiot who is reflecting his own fears back at you, he obviously isn't happy with his lot and wants a reaction out of someone and unfortunately that seems to have fallen in your lap, ignore him and stay away from him and if he makes anymore threats pop into the local police station just to put your case across for your own peace of mind, some idiots aren't worth the hassle or the worry so don't let his sort get to you.
2006-10-04 09:48:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all let me say that i know of a few people that are... well small in stature BUT i have seen then literally kick the **** out of some pretty big guys. the Knee is a great place to start then when he hits the ground the Sky's the limit. If your talking about mental retribution well then his family and friends are a great place to start, get to know them well and remember that if you take this road, it will take time to gain trusts and build relationships with these people, then once you have them thinking your there best friend start trashing this TURD eventually you'll destroy his life or at least make it miserable. HE WILL EVENTUALLY WANT TO KICK YOUR *** but if your prepared you can handle it.... ;)
2006-10-04 07:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by Clint 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rise above it. By saying nothing or actually being civil towards him in front of his friends you'll actually irritate him more. If he's twice your size and hasn't got the courage to speak to your face it's obviously all talk.
2006-10-04 07:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by bob kerr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consider the source.
This person is hardly worth the trouble you have put yourself to in writing about.
Time reveals all, and in the end you will come out on top. If he has done this to you, rest assured, he has done it to others.
He must be very unsure of his sexuality.
2006-10-04 06:53:11 · answer #5 · answered by lordofthetarot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to consider that you don't know him and that you can do one of two things
1) Let it slide like water off a ducks back OR
2) Approach him and give a piece of your mind to him, in a smart way.
2006-10-04 06:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by babysweetvee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore the retard ... maybe he has a fancy for ur g/f still in that case he has a case of the green eyed monster ....
2006-10-04 07:07:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, I find the best course of action in this circumstance. Is no action at all
2006-10-04 06:56:08 · answer #8 · answered by CLIVE H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just leave it be man. You are the better man it sounds like to me.
2006-10-04 06:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it. Hes TRYING to scare you.
Just try keep outta his way.
Your be fine ! =]
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2006-10-04 06:50:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋