2 years ago a friend and I had a Baby Shower for another friend and I made most of the food and decorated the house. My friend just provided the house and the games and we went half on the Carne Asada. Well the girl that was pregnant never, till this day has told me thanks or send me a card. I found out that she did send out thank you cards to everybody that went to the shower except me, till this day I'm hurt with her. I do talk to her still but I'm a little hurt with her because she never said Thank you for doing this for me, or something. So my question is, should I still be hurt, get over it, or talk to her and let her know how I feel? Please be honest with me of what i should do. I won't get hurt if you tell me to get over it. Thank You so much!!!!!!
2006-10-04 06:27:02 · 11 answers · asked by Kookie 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Well, there could be an honest explanation...lost in the mail, didn't realize you were part of it, etc etc. But, if this is still bothering you, I think you need to ask her. It has bothered you this long, so you obviously need some sort of closure. Then put it to rest.
2006-10-04 06:31:35 · answer #1 · answered by Trixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems a little odd that she didn't even thank you for what you've done for her. I can't even guess why not, but it has been two years snd maybe you should get over it. If you can't ,than tell her that you have hurt feelings... don't get angry. I'm sure she'll quickly try to right the wrong. But don't over exagerate it because it really isn't that big of a deal.
2006-10-04 06:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she isnt much of a friend and doesnt appreciate you. Yeah you should feel hurt and be bothered. my advice would be cut ties and move on. someone as nice as you will easily make more friends
good luck
2006-10-04 06:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by GAgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to forget about about it and move on. Don't let this get in the way of what could be a great friendship.
2006-10-04 06:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. She may have innocently overlooked you and actually thinks she sent you a thank you card. Life's too short!
2006-10-04 06:30:18 · answer #5 · answered by Nunya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this could have been an oversite on her part....... sometimes that happens... but u did it FOR her, as a kind act.... i would let it go and move on.... u shouldnt ask for thanks when uve done something FOR someone....... u could also mention it to her, in a casual, non-confronting manner, to let her know, in case it was missed by accident..... she may not know u didnt get the recognition from her for having done such a nice thing FOR her....
2006-10-04 06:33:24 · answer #6 · answered by costellos_creation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably your friend does not know about the favor you did to her and somebody took all the credit for what u did. talk to your friend it, because it seems u are hurting yourself more than ur friend by thinking about it for two years and not having overcome it. Please talk to your friend immediately for your betterment.
2006-10-04 06:33:00 · answer #7 · answered by smr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's your friend, so you don't want to completely stop talking to her.
Trying talking to her about it. If you find you can't, then simply let it go. After all, it was two years ago.
2006-10-04 06:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by analystdevil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it's time to move on. She should've sent you a thank you note and she didn't - it's too late for one now. Stop talking to her and don't waste your time - she's not worth it.
2006-10-04 06:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her how you feel,maybe she sent you a thank you card but it got lost in the mail.
2006-10-04 06:30:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋