If you liked this guy but still loved this one and u cant be with the guy you love, But the guy you like is talking to someone but he likes you back. its kinda confusing but i like him enough that i want em to be happy and im willing to let em go and be with the other girl. i feel like i like so many people and its hard bc idk what to do. i know i wanna take my time and i dont wanna rush into anything. i also still care about 2 of my ex's and its hard sometimes. i just need some help. thanx
2006-10-04 06:18:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There's an old saying: "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with."
2006-10-04 06:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by swomedicineman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, it sounds like you need to take a break and take a little time to just be with yourself.
I always hated to be alone and it was really hard for me, because I would get scared and i just loved being with someone. BUT, i never could make a relationship work because I was never commited to any ONE guy. I had some feelings for "this one" and some feelings for "that one" and I really LOVED "this other one" But I just couldn't ever be happy with ONE.
Take a little time and enjoy being single! Go out with your friends and spend time being able to do whatever you want. Figure out who you are as an individual and what you want out of life. After you are able to do that, it will become clear what you need in a man. If any of these guys that you have loved fit into those needs, then you'll know....but chances are, someone you never even thought existed will come into the picture and you'll forget all about the others. I know you don't think that's possible, but it happened for me.....
Good luck Sweetheart!
2006-10-04 13:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by brookebjpl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were in love w. your 2 ex's you should care about them, you cant just turn off love, but you need to let them go. And if this other dude likes you but is w. another girl forget him also..he will do the same to you
2006-10-04 13:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by ndn_202 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be in a relationship with someone and NOT care about them. You need to put this in perspective here. You don't love them only care about them.
2006-10-04 13:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o have been with my boyfriend for 11 month and how he has dump me because of my familly i told him that i love him
2006-10-04 13:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
focus on your school work dear.
2006-10-04 14:06:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋