Im 18 and Ive known my friend for 4 years and we had started going out. during this time, she became friends with my ex who i dumped after a year long relationship of confusion, embarrasment and dissapointment. shes tryin 2 talk to 9 dudes at once including my friends and family. anyways, my girl started becoming friends with my ex because she thought she was cool. i told her not to get friendly with her because shes ruthless. so a few months go by and we declair our love for one another. then a few days later, she hates me and never wants to see me again, she says that my ex said somethin to her about me. i asked both my ex and my girl what was said but they woulnt tell me. finally my girl breaks it off with me but tells me that my ex told her somethin one of my OTHER friends said. the ex has been tryin to talk to my friend to so i talked with him and he told me everything was a lie and soon we'll confirm that with my girl. but should i try to get my girl back when she didnt trust me?
2006-10-04 05:57:39 · 7 answers · asked by phillysnumba1hustla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She took your ex's words over yours and didn't confront you about it or give you chance to explain your side. Trust is everything in a relationship. If she can't trust you, then you shouldn't be together.
2006-10-04 06:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you don't need this drama. It sounds like you need another dating pool to meet chicks from. Just another example of why men and women are not "friends" If she won't say why she broke up with you its because it has nothing to do with you. She is rolling with you ex flirting with guys, dating around and having fun being a little ho. And ya know what; she's not 21 and the clubs and drinking really wild years haven't even started. And that's exactly what she should be doing. Having fun when your young. And that is what you should be doing too. The problem is this is the age when its hard to get Hot chicks you own age because they are with older working guys with money. UNLESS you are away from home in college on campus where you should be. No real girlfriends until you are 25 and out of school.
2006-10-04 06:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by brooklyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She had this whole break up thing set up from the get go...she was searcnign for a way out. Your ex may have been invovled from the beginnign as well.
Walk away from the drama girl. Enjoy life, and find someone who WILL love you for who you are and not make life decisions based on what "someone" else said...that is so high school...
Tell them to grow up and screw them.
Good Luck!!
2006-10-04 06:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by TexasKitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO! one of the top rules is never listen to what friends and ex's say, listen, but then ask to confirm...she didnt trust you to begin with why would she "trust" you now...your only 18, you have so much more to live than girly drama!
2006-10-04 06:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by sassy2sloppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman like that,
maybe all of them are that way,
They are easily swayed by others often times to their ruin,
If you want to but she will likely be fooled again she is unable to think for herself.
2006-10-04 06:01:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yawn...I hate reading novels
2006-10-04 06:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by Magicman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex should have been on your s.hit list a long time ago
2006-10-04 06:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by jack jack 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋