*snarl*i was happy and in love.then he had to cheat on me with my own brother(older).the swines.so whats the best thing to do?
2006-10-04 05:52:41 · 21 answers · asked by steve p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
eehh..how small minded and blind are you people?thanks for the advice.but i am gay.i am a male.and i said he not she.so..
2006-10-04 23:41:18 · update #1
Move on with your life and be happy. Best revenge ever.
That and beating the crap out of your brother helps as well.
2006-10-04 05:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all think about revenge against someone some time in our life. Divorce and troubled relationships are probably high on the "revenge" chart whether it's wanting revenge against a spouse who has caused us pain or revenge against a third party who has interfered in our relation. Because revenge is a part of the anger process, it can be helpful to think through harmless scenarios with the other person "getting theirs."
There is nothing wrong with thinking about revenge for a little while. But don't let it consume you. Don't become obsessed by revenge. Revenge can be ugly. It can take away your enjoyment of life. While you're being consumed with revenge, your life is standing still. Instead of exploring your options and moving on, you're wasting time. While you think about revenge, you remain emotionally tied to him or her.
Take care of yourself.
2006-10-04 06:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is always to show that you are bigger than them and to show that they haven't beaten you. Psychical revenge is pointless as you will be in a lot of trouble possibly with the law if you do anything like that. They have hurt you badly but rather than get yourself in a lot of trouble turn it to your advantage and make them think you can do without them. That's the sweetest revenge.
2006-10-04 05:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by GaryUKB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. Carry on regardless. Revenge may seem like a good idea at the time, but it usually comes back to haunt you. Move on.
2006-10-04 05:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by nert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think that you should move on with YOUR life. Who really needs the stress of thinking about what to do to get revenge on someone when that could get you into trouble. Ask yourself this question.... Do I want to get over this or cause myself to get into trouble over this? It is your choice. I hope you choose to do the right thing. Good Luck!
2006-10-04 06:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let go. Try to find a person who loves you more than you love her. Its the best way out. If yuo try to take revenge you will hurt yourself and not them because they dont love you. Prove that you can be loved more than what you deserve. Success
2006-10-04 08:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by Kiran urf msa sis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
revenge may make you feel good for the short term but the best revenge you could do is get on with your life and be happy.
2006-10-04 05:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by jules 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and make a better life for yourself. Success is the sweetest revenge!!!
2006-10-04 05:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
work on the relationship with the brother. chances are the other guy will be gone soon so remember if you let go of the hate and anger it will totally astound him and you might have a chance of saving the relationship with your brother.
2006-10-04 05:57:37 · answer #9 · answered by skylinbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This seems like a lost cause. If your boyfriend is gay and your brother is also, just let it go and get over it.
Revenge is not to be recommended.
2006-10-04 06:26:02 · answer #10 · answered by Sally J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋