I consider myself attrractive and keep myself in shape. I like to wear clothing that fits nicely on my body. I wear little bikinis on the beach. I'm tired of getting looks like I'm a S-l-u-t. Anyone else in my position?
2006-10-04 05:40:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
This is an interesting question.
I myself am a larger woman. Far from obese, but not a stick either. I am attractive, and make sure that I look my best when ever possible. So I understand and agree with you. If you have it, why not flaunt it?
In this saying though, there is a fine line between flaunting, and being a slut. For each person, this line is in a different place. Good for you for keeping in shape, and looking your best. There is NOTHING wrong with that. Where people…those that give you the dirty looks…have problems, might be the cloths you wear. If they fit nicely and show off your figure, great! It is when you SHOW your figure (EX: LOW neck line, tummy showing ect.) that people take you more as a slut. That might be where you are having a problem (the bikini).
I like bikinis. I think they are cute, and if you can wear them, do it! Where I have a problem is when the bikini is TINI, where the woman is almost naked. I don’t have a problem with the woman and I am NOT disgusted by the bikini itself, more as in I am sad disappointed with the woman’s choice.
These days, society makes it so that the less you wear, the sexier you are. Yet every male I know says that yes, less is hot, but it seems desperate for attention. Thus making it an easy target for one-night-stands and pointless sexual encounters. Where as more clothing, seems more classy and lady-like. When men are young, they want the women that wear less, because they tend to be (Not say YOU are one of these) easy. But the woman they want to marry is the one that wore more and covered her body a little bit.
What I am trying to get across is that yes, women do have problems with other women that wear less. And true, they give that look of ‘OMG! She is almost naked! What a Slut!’. As long as your personality is not ‘bitchy’ and doesn’t come across as ‘I am prettier than you, you are ugly!’ You should be fine. Remember, just because some women can’t wear that tiny bikini, and can’t show their figure, doesn’t mean they aren’t lovely. Every woman has some quality that makes them stunning.
2006-10-04 06:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by evellin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you would consider yourself to be beautiful many women would probably look at you and wonder what the hell your doing with a real sexy guy but the truth is that women don't lash because of the way you look but the things you do because of the way you look there's a difference. So the next time you think that a women is looking at you all stank maybe it's not the way you look but the way you are because that's the way you look. Trust me i can relate and at times i am a b**** or maybe that's all the time and i get stank looks at on a daily basis but it has nothing to do with the way that i look but the way i am and i don't give a d***. Because the ni**as love and i love me too. Cause i wear a size 10 and a d-cup bra, and i have dimples, and nice long hair with light brown eyes and i will be damn if I'm going to hide in the shadow because another women is too afraid to flaunt what she got. God gave black women nice big booties and breast. I'm pretty sure they were not made that way to be under baggy pants and over sized shirts.
2006-10-04 05:51:35 · answer #2 · answered by ArDene'e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope! Lucky you still have a nice body! Take care of it!
I like to see other beautiful women but I'm against the ones that are too full of themselves.
2006-10-04 05:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im like that. My boyfriend is working with a girl that is also pretty and I dont like her not because she has done anything to make me not like her but because I feel threatened by her. So that the only thing I can think of that or jealousy.
2006-10-04 06:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by cherri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, depends on many things. women are competitive creatures, backstabing and pretend a lot of the time..do yr thing girl up to the point u really don't mess with people. shake that bootie..
2006-10-04 05:44:06 · answer #5 · answered by disco ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly women are jealous of other beautiful women.
2006-10-04 05:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know some guys find women more attractive when they don't flaunt themselves. women who do flaunt themselves appear what's the word EASY
2006-10-04 05:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the way it was for me. i had a hard time dealing with jealous girls all four years in high school, and im still dealing with them today.but you sound like you got the body. so WORK IT GIRL!!!!!!!!! and forget those haters.
2006-10-04 08:50:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i know how you feel.........Its nothing you can do about it so just go on like you do and don't think about what other people think they are just jealous.Even my fat friend sitting next to me agrees. Go with it , I do just don't act like your **** don't stink because that's just conceited. And makes you look ugly inside.
2006-10-04 05:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by nina22583 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually it's the fat, ugly, jealous porkers who can get some that lash out against the cute ones...
2006-10-04 05:43:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋