well..is like this.....
i've been out w/ girls..i mean countless girls..
but sometimes i just stop and look at guys..but i dont know wat it is that i stop and look at...
is it them..their clothes...i really dont know..and im going crazy!!!
plzz help
2006-10-04 05:05:06 · 9 answers · asked by sexy 1 in Home & Garden ➔ Other - Home & Garden
You could be bi..or gay..or maybe you just aren't sure right now. Things change, PEOPLE change..either way there is NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU..don't feel that way, being gay/straight/bi whatever is your choice..do not let anything or anyone let you feel ashamed about YOUR LIFE....Look at Lance Bass for example (the guy from N'sync) he was gay for YEARS and had to "hide" it from the world, his band, and himself...and once he came out a couple of months ago..he said it was a "a sigh of relief" he could finally be himself, BE YOURSELF, if you think you need to experiment, experiment..it won't kill you (as long as your safe and smart about it). Remember it's better to accept yourself now for who you are, then continue your life living a lie and hurting people that you love and love you along the way. Honesty is the best policy..and if you are scared people will not accept you, then they are not true friends or family...GOOD LUCK..and BE GAY (REMEMBER: GAY MEANS HAPPY)....
2006-10-04 05:22:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you stop and look at guys, you don't know why your doing it? Yes you do know. Maybe it is something you are having a difficult time admitting to yourself, or then, maybe not. We cannot answer this question for you. This is something you need to answer for yourself. It would be so wrong for us to say one way or another what your thoughts assumable mean. If you feel this issue is becoming a real problem for you, then I suggest going and talking to a professional counselor.
2006-10-04 05:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by JB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stumble on what you're feeling. Make note of what the gentleman is wearing, or the way he contains himself, and doubtless you could figure it out. i'd say it really is distinctly organic for human beings to look at someone it truly is appealing, no count their gender. inspite of it really is you're feeling, you aren't any more on my own, and also you could't feel embarrassment about it. good success!
2016-11-26 02:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...you are not going crazy, and neither are you gay. it's just what the world thinks that makes you think you are when you look at guys, but its not.
no harm at looking at people, just don't stare at them because sometimes they are gangsters and that may put a bullet through your head.
2006-10-04 05:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by J L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can always make the experience and decide later on your sexuality. You could be str8,bi or gay and it's up to u to decide. But just staring at guys the way you described doesn't make you gay from where I see it..
2006-10-04 05:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by ritchjj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No problem...there are lots of attractive people out there. You're gay if you act on it, and even then, there's nothing wrong with you.
2006-10-04 05:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopefully you just like their clothes or something! you could be gay though....you never know!
2006-10-04 05:14:05 · answer #7 · answered by wonderwoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how should we know if you don't even know??????
2006-10-04 05:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU MY FRIEND ARE GAY.
2006-10-04 05:12:09 · answer #9 · answered by thagoldengyrl01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋