i ve been trying to get him to quit 4 ever and its worked for a while but then his damn mom started smoking again so now any time he comes over to my house i know hes been smoking cause i smell it on his fingers and on his breath and im to the point where i will break up with him if it'll get him to quit.
2006-10-04 04:57:06 · 7 answers · asked by AskingAlexandria_91 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its not easy to quit. If you love him keep trying. Maybe he could try the patch or other things that are available to help people quit.
2006-10-04 05:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really smoke to often but everyone I know does and I have no moral objection. I dated two potheads in a row. My old boyfriend would always over do it. He was so burnt and stupid all the time, I was annoyed by his very presence (although I did love him). My boyfriend now smokes ever day but a moderate amount. The difference between his high self and his sober self is pretty indistinguishable. It's like someone who is a little buzzed from a couple beers and someone who drinks so much every night they pee in your bed. The point is, he doesn't need to get stupid. Popping pill is another story entirely. I think it's a good sign of self destructive personality which is bad news sister.
2016-03-18 04:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can demand all you want, but until he decides it is not going to happen. I know my children tried for years, I did not stop. Then about a year and a half a go I smoked my last pack. I'm like your boyfriend I stopped off an on but did not give it a good try until I was ready. So he has to decided to do it on his own. Good Luck
2006-10-04 05:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by usserydog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to want to stop to even have a chance to stop smoking. I understand your frustration because my best friend is a smoker and when we spend time together and go our separate ways I spell the smoke on my clothes and in my hair and I absolutely HATE it.
2006-10-04 05:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st u cannot make him quit i know it sucks but nothing you can do 2nd if it bothers you talk to him and tell him to get into a prgram and that eventually it will harm him and that u wuill be behind him in his effort to quit 100% support
2006-10-04 05:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by lita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You began dating him with this problem so why do you expect him to change now??? If you can not except him for what he is them move on. His moms fault - NOT - it's your fault for thinking you can "MAKE" someone change, get over yourself!
2006-10-04 06:21:28 · answer #6 · answered by American Pride 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh. my bf does that too. He's tried the stupid pills but that doesn't work too well. I'm also giving him an ultimatum. You should too and stick to your word.
2006-10-04 04:59:29 · answer #7 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They you need to give the ultimatum:
Cigaretts of me, but prepared to have him take the nicotine, OK?
2006-10-04 04:59:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋