what can i do??? i need help!!! please!
2006-10-04 04:39:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the more u work on urself, the better u will feel. *trust me*.
so having said that, work on:
1) your appearance: work out. exercise. take care of ur body. take care of ur skin. get new haircut. try on new clothes. buy Flattering, stylish clothes, make u feel good and look good.
2) your mind: study. read more. learn more about current events. find a hobby, and excel at it. the more u KNOW, the easier it will be for you to develop your own ways of thinking, as well as be able to TALK w/ others about it.
3) your relationships: as u build ur confidence in urself, and keep in mind to be Open Minded, Non Judgemental to others..... u will be able to speak out more, talk to ur friends, family members, practice talking about anything and everything u are learning, or find out what they are interested in. the more u practice, the easier it will be for u to do that with Strangers, or friends of friends, and not feel as shy...because remember, 1 & 2, u are already working on ur appearance and your brain, so u don't have as much to be "scared" about.
:) good luck...the more Positive attitude u have (remember, u can Always change something if u make a mistake, u can learn from it, u can always grow, and do something different tomorrow), the more opportunity u will have in ur life. confidence will lead to easier job interviews, class discussions, making friends, getting to know teachers, eventually relationships and girlfriends, etc etc.... huge impact on ur life. but getting over ur shyness is the first step, and working on ur confidence will help u become less shy.
2006-10-04 04:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you can do is take a deep breath (make sure she doesn't see you doing it) and tell yourself it is okay to look at her, it is not the end of the world if you look shy/blush when you look at her, and then go do it. Some girls think shyness is cute, anyway.
Few resources on shyness. I especially like Shy and Free.
2006-10-04 12:08:50 · answer #2 · answered by yellowscissors 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋