When you have relations, you are sad because you have expectations with them. Expectations lead you to sorrowfull incidents. And when you have no one to care for, no body cares you either.
But if a person has learnt the technique to love every individual, every entity possible on this earth and beyond, will he/she be happy alone. ????? What you say??
2006-10-04 03:57:47 · 25 answers · asked by saketanim 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yes one can. But it'd require a certain serenity, perhaps easiest from birth to be learned. Life without people, if subconsciously, innately, learned from birth, could very possibly lead to a person with clear mental health, although they would be quite different from the average humans on social terms. I'd compare it to "Tarzan". Buddha meditated for 10 years apparently, and he was far from crazy. But in this day and age, I don't believe it'd be possible for someone in western culture to be able to do it straight off of the bat. It'd require practice and discipline. Yes, if one is fully detached from those around them emotionally, but spiritually attached with spiritual emotion, through the source, they wont directly need any one person, place, or thing to satisfy them. I'm 100% positive that can be achieved with constant mental focus, but whether or not they're "happy" is fully determinate on the perceived value of what they've decided makes them happy, or fufills them. If enlightenment or the like is what they truly want, they'll be happy without everyone, but if truly deep in themselves they find people to be the deciding factor, they wont be happy without them.
2006-10-04 04:09:53 · answer #1 · answered by Answerer 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Man is a social being and not an island. Marriage is not essential if you can manage without it. Marriage works on compatibility and there is no point in expecting too much from your partner. That can only create problems for you as well as for your partner. You can live alone happily, but I don't feel it will be happiness all along. Sometimes people are not socially accepted when they are not married. So after a certain age you may tend to feel regrets for not fitting well in the society. As time goes by your friends might all be married and they won't have much time for you. Then it’s going to be really hard, being friendless and being alone. So it’s not a totally good idea. Think well before making such a choice. See and understand all the positive and negative sides. I'm sure you can adjust well and be happily married if you wish too. All the best! :)
2006-10-04 04:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by Neha j 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Firstly, I love how independant you are! I love how you are ok with being single :D Secondly, do not believe anything is your destiny because you may be mis-interpretting what god is trying to say.... Thirdly, I love how you love god bcs i love him too :D And finally, I believe that every-one has someone special waiting for em' and when you LEAST expect it you will fall in love, trust me Its at times when love is the last thing on your mind, that nature will surprise with theperfect man for you. Also i have come to realise that there is nothing more beautiful and amazing than a warm family. Friends come and go, but your kids,or your mom,or your sister will stay for ever, so NO you cannot be happy without having kids. Good luckkkk xox
2016-03-18 04:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How To Live Alone Happily
2016-12-28 12:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if a man living alone can be happy because he has nothing to lose and a lot to gain. He/she has learned that happiness doesn't always have to be found through another person, but through himself as an individual.
2006-10-04 04:25:37 · answer #5 · answered by Nihili 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I honestly wish a man could. If I could I would not stay with a woman who cheats on me, neglects our baby, does not work, rarely cleans or cooks and is abusive.I'm good looking, popular and have treated her right. give her money, take her backstage to meet lots and lots of famous people fun fun fun.....so you are saying why are you still with this woman when from your description you would seem like a great catch. She swears she'll run off with my 11 month old and I'll never see him again..should have stayed single.
2006-10-04 04:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by Tim A 1 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Hi,
Well, man has got a major problem. When he's in any relation, he does not care about it. Later, when he's alone, he understands the importance of relations. So, relations have to be there in everyone's life. For sometime, man can live happily alone, but, he will have to face a day when he should have relationships in his life.
2006-10-04 04:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anusha R 1 · 1⤊ 5⤋
Living alone and being alone are to different things. You asked "Can a man live alone all his life" The answer is yes he can you don't need anyone living with you. But I do think you need some people in your life.
2006-10-04 05:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by robert d 4 · 1⤊ 4⤋
It depends on the individual, and if they're content with being alone. But in my opinion, some form of communication is vital to your entire being. You shouldn't expect so much from others. It's almost inevitable to get hurt every now and then, so my best advice is to move on and don't let it effect you so much. I would hope that you don't distance yourself from others because of past experiences. There really are good people out there... good luck to you.
2006-10-04 04:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by Ahbeeee 3 · 1⤊ 4⤋
It can happen but only a few oddities will make it alone and happy today.
Your social conditioning will not let you be happy alone as it is scarred in your personality for life. The instinct to be social and tendto afamily orientation is very deep.......
,,,,however a few generations hence the family will break down and the individual will be the unit of society,,,,,,,,,,,,till then wait.
2006-10-04 07:16:34 · answer #10 · answered by micky mick 1 · 0⤊ 5⤋