i love my hubby so much
2006-10-04 03:55:20 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First i want to say im so sorry to hear that you feel that your husband doesn't love you the same. Haveyou confronted him about your feelings? Try talking to him first and see where it goes. How long have you been married???
2006-10-04 03:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by shyhonney 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's hard to get back to normal after you realize that you are not loved by the one you love. General things you can do to help yourself are keep yourself busy, think about the future don't analyze the past, move forward each day at a time, get a new hobby, surround yourself with friends or family ( i know you might not feel very social these days) and realize that it is a process that you have to go through but once it's done you can move full steam ahead and enjoy the rest of your life.
A life coach or a good friend might be able to help you at this point in your life.
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Best of luck to you.
2006-10-04 07:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by ilfecoach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are no different from others. Every marriage relationship has to face this after few years.
Dont be afraid.Stick to your line.Keep on loving him.His ignorance doesnt mean that he doesnt love you.
Pl. also include the following into your routine.
* Often talk to him over such matters which require immediate attention.Dont linger on.
* Dont be egoistic and always take advantage to restart talking yourself after a tussle.
* Try to welcom him with a sweet smile when he returns from office/job
* Keep yourself in shape and look beautiful before him.
* If you are not having children, raise your family now.
* Take a break from daily routine and suggest him to take you away from home.
* Surprise him with any thing like new recipe, a small gift even keeping a note with your message into his pocket will work.
* Ask him what can be done to strengthen your relationship.
* Try to reduce his stress of his job which often leads to such a situtaion. You have to find it out the ways yourself as only you know how to please your hubby.
* Have faith in him and always be supportive.
* Demand you share of time , pleasure and peace.
* If you love him which you do, express it every now and then with your deeds.
Pray to God as per your faith. It helps.
Insha Allah you will be having a good family.
Good Luck.
2006-10-04 04:25:03 · answer #3 · answered by ♪¢αpη' ε∂ïß♪ ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not the end of life. You have your own career persuits, hobbies, friends. Read a lot. Out of 100% life the distribution of various factors are like this:
1.Forgiving errors-30%,
2.Appreciate qualities-30%,
3.Living together-30%,
4.Sex-8%and
5.Conflicts-2%.Try to maintain the percentage. It will help you overcome your state of depression. Take help from Geeta,the ancient book of India.
2006-10-04 22:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by neela m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-16 20:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him this ultimatum. He either allows you to have a discreet friend for sex and things, he takes care of your sexual needs or he gives you a divorce. If he really just wants you to live with him for show and to society, then he will have to allow you to find sexual fulfillment somewhere else. There are a lot of marriages (especially the rich) in this situation. Take the money and be the wife but you should also have a lover. If he disagrees with this, then get a divorce and take 50% of his money. Good Luck.
2016-03-18 04:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find out d reason why ur hubby does not love u ? Do the things he likes. Most important is to talk it out with him and if he understands u ask him to accompany u to a marriage councellor. Ask him what he does not like in u ? Try to remain happy , as man wants to see a smiling face of his wife always.
2006-10-04 07:19:15 · answer #7 · answered by misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband dont love you?If thats the case push your love to the side and leave him or you will be depressed forever!I personally would rather hurt one good time from a break up than to live feeling like I'm breaking up everyday.
2006-10-04 03:59:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself first and foremost. How can you love another when you don't love you. You don't have to do for yourself such as buy nice clothes...do all for you and nothing or not as much for him. But more internally, love who you are, find your strengths and your weakness; find what makes you happy and who you are inside. That to me, is what marriage is all about. Be yourself, finding yourself and meeting at the end to become as 1.
2006-10-04 04:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by sassy lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't focus on him so much. Live your life. I do not worry about this stuff, only when I was younger. Make nice friends and go out with them. Enjoy life. Find hobbies that you will enjoy. I used to love to watch lifetime movies and I can't wait to watch my programs and I also enjoy yahoo answers. Treat yourself by going to your favourite place for lunch. Life is short so enjoy it.
2006-10-04 04:24:20 · answer #10 · answered by observer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you feel your hubby doesn't love you? i mean like maybe he love you but he don't know how to express? initially even i thought that my hubby doesn't love me, he just want his family and friends but that didn't stop me from loving me.i treated him like my baby ,sometime ii say like i cant do live without you etc.....and whenever we had fight i was the one who compromise or say sorry but now even learn ed all this thing .i mean if u really love him,then love him as much as u can and one fine day you will find him loving u the same way as u do.
for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.-newton third law
2006-10-05 01:43:37 · answer #11 · answered by simplewife20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋