2006-10-04 03:54:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
absolutely! I would leave silently and look for emotional support in meetings, friends (the ones that are clean, of course), and/or family
2006-10-04 03:57:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask them if they understood what a recovering addict is. Some people think that when the using the stops the addiction disappears, maybe you need to explain that this is not the case. Communication is the most important thing in any relationship, so I would tell them how you're feeling and your thoughts on leaving the relationship due to their behaviours and lack of understanding. Hopefully you work it out.
2006-10-04 03:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by lazy lady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a recovering addict and my husband offers me beer/pills all the time and he has seen me suffer my worst nightmares through my addiction. I just don't get it! I am considering leaving myself because it makes me feel disrespected after all the hard times I have had because of drugs and alcohol. He says he misses his partying buddy but I don't recall being much fun when I was using. Maybe they want us to relapse so they can control us or have the upper hand again? I'm confused about this one myself. Good luck
2006-10-04 04:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The saying that just one time can't hurt you is totally wrong and for your spouse to offer you drugs knowing that you recover from addiction is pretty much the worst. I would immediately pack my belongings and leave because that would tell me that things cannot work out with him being active and me being a recovering addict---some might not agree, but that's how I feel...Good LUck
2006-10-04 03:58:21 · answer #4 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't leave if I was sure about my strength level against the drugs. Tell him you would appreciate it if he didn't offer you any or do them around you or in the house. You know what road that leads down. I wouldn't go down the road with him. You are going to have to have a long talk with him. If all else fails, leave.
2006-10-04 04:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by windandwater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if I was a recovering addict, I wouldn't choose to marry someone who was still using drugs.
2006-10-04 04:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you need to leave and get away from this person. If your mate really cared about you they would have never offered you drugs. Your mate is not a every good person.
2006-10-04 15:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your spouse does drugs and you are a recovering addict, you should leave. Even if they didn't offer them to you... it is wrong.
2006-10-04 03:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by Mike Hunt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Leave.
2006-10-04 04:02:40 · answer #9 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
party like its 1999
2006-10-04 03:57:54 · answer #10 · answered by eldoradoman1953 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋