i met this girl who wanted to marry me for residency. i was not interested. but we did go out and she seemed very nice. i hooked her up with one of my buddies not thinking they would like each other, i thought it would just be a friendship. now it seems it may get serious, my problem is should i tell my buddy that she wanted to get married with me to obtain legal residency????
2006-10-04 03:52:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nah he isnt that stupid is he? Is he a big dummy? Never point out the obvious.
2006-10-04 03:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by Hillary Dillary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would, but I would do it in an innocuous kind of way. If they really like each other you don't want to put doubt in his mind that she is only dating him for the possibility of marriage for citizenship. And if she really likes him, she may have told him that already.
I would wait a week or two and see how it's going between them. You also might mention to her that marrying for citizenship is not what it's cracked up to be. Those types of marriages are scrutinized very seriously by the Department of State and INS, and it could very well be that they kick him out to live with her in her country of origin until she applies for citizenship and/or permanent residency to ensure that it is a real marriage. It is rare that this happens, but it has happened.
2006-10-04 10:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should tell him, so at least he can find out if her feelings are real or not. Maybe shes just a good actress. Tell him and he can work on the rest, at least he will know. Imagine if they got married and then 2 years later she tells him she never loved him....how bad would u feel then?
2006-10-04 10:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If she is that desperate for it, she will tell him. By the way, marrying someone just to get residency is not legal. Unless she's way hot.
2006-10-04 10:56:20 · answer #4 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! This same thing happened with a very good friend of mine and it turned out to be horrible for her. He married her just for a green card, telling her that he loved her...but after the ceremony he bailed on her and she couldn't find him for months. Then he threatened her that if she told on him that she'd go to jail!
I know you liked this girl yourself, and she likely isn't that diabolical.....but your friend comes first. IF he truly loves her it won't make any difference to him, but at least he will be informed.
Good Luck!
2006-10-04 11:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by brookebjpl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
2006-10-04 10:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by yooo_adrien 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should, she may be using him simply for that and then later could break his heart.
2006-10-04 10:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-10-04 10:55:17 · answer #8 · answered by Adajaih p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, stop being a hater. If she wants to she can tell him that herself. Mind yoursssss....why didnt you tell him that before you introduce them?
2006-10-04 10:54:31 · answer #9 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...you should make that lady tell him or say you will but its better if he hears it from her...it would hurt less
2006-10-04 10:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by KaKes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋