2006-10-04 03:50:20 · 23 answers · asked by Rocco 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just tell her you don't want to be with her anymore. when you're upfront she'll get a clear message about how you feel.
2006-10-04 03:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by gigi_the_girl_anachronism 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Surely things 'never going back to the way it was' is a good thing 'cos whatever it was that went wrong means the relationship wasn't all it should have been in the first place. You say you still love her... then why be without her.. she obviously still has feelings for you too or she wouldn't be trying to win you back. Please don't cut off your nose to spite your face or react a certain way because you think its the way you're expected to react or the way your friends / family think you should react. Your relationship with her could be everything you ever wanted second time around; you'd certainly have a more honest relationship and, I believe a deeper and more meaningful one. Think about it. Do what makes you feel good. X
2006-10-04 04:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't get rid of her because you are giving her mixed signals "i still love her" and you optimistically hope things/she will change and you will get back together and live happily ever after.
A clean wound is the easiest healed, even if it is deep.
Be honest.
Don't try and save her feelings, you're only hurting you and her more in the long run.
Blunt honesty is whats called for. But not if its I love you if you change (still giving her hope) Just say no contact and don't answer the phone,door,email.
2006-10-04 04:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by zara c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you have to be honest with her. if she keeps ringing you its because she still has feelings and wants to give it another go. You need to tell her that, for whatever reason, this isn't possible and there is no chance of you getting back together. it might be hard initially but its better for you both in the long run. Good luck.
2006-10-04 04:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still love her it will be hard to let go of that something you had at the start what you should do is both go to a spot that you really like just relax and talk about the things that have gone wrong in the relationship make it work if you want to also good luck i hope it works
2006-10-04 04:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by forshawjennifer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what to do:
when she rings again, tell her how you feel, as she keeps calling you, its obvious that she still loves you, and as you still love her, if you ask her out again, what have you got to lose? This sort of thing happened to me once, I split up with a girl, and she kept calling me, I still loved her and asked her out again, and she took my offer with open arms, I've now been with her for two years and we're engaged, and I haven't looked back since!
Take my advice mate, if you don't tell her how you feel, she'll never know! be bold and make that step!
2006-10-04 03:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going through the same thing with my ex fiance'. Ive changed my mobile number and have had to get solicitors involved to threaten him with a restraining order!things have calmed down so far. i dont really want to have to go to court to obtain the order but if i have to then i suppose i will.
i suggest you do the same. you have your life too. dont let her ruin things for you.
Good Luck! x
2006-10-04 04:14:26 · answer #7 · answered by XCuteX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still love her then I wonder why she is your EX.
But, if you really want to end the relationship, DON'T tell her you still love her or she will continue to pester you.
Short of that, change your phone numbers, block her number, don't answer calls from "private" or "with-held" numbers.
Hope this helps.
2006-10-04 06:33:37 · answer #8 · answered by Sally J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is true & I have experienced the same thing as you.
One just has to accept the situation as it is and move on with life & allow others to come into your life!
Remember deep relationships never END they just get ALTERED!!!
So don't ever think of getting 'rid' of any partner!
2006-10-04 03:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by Cool Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u still love her, why torment yourself. as if its worth forgiving whatever happened. People do get married to the same person again...
failing that.. dont answer the phone, or get a stand in to be your 'new' gf
2006-10-04 03:57:35 · answer #10 · answered by miz Destiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't it? If you truly love someone there is always hope. Go to counseling,or try to work through your problems by talking them out. Never give up on love. I know I won't!
2006-10-04 03:53:42 · answer #11 · answered by day dreamin baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋