i have been married for just over a year we have a 5 month old i am perfectly happy with my daughter and my husband ... so why am i so sad all the time... i feel like crying all the time!!!!
2006-10-04 03:43:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YOur hormones are still out of whack from having your baby. If it doesn't get better soon you should go see your dr about it.
2006-10-04 03:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds that you are indeed happy about your marriage and the fact you have a daughter, but perhaps you are developing a form of nostalgia - longing for the past, even though you are satisfied with your current situation.
Many people often get this, at various stages in their lives. Sometimes it can linger on for an indefinite period as well.
Perhaps, you miss the times when you were single and carefree, killing time with your friends and really not having that much to worry about.
I am not married but, in your situation perhaps I would feel this way at some point; maybe because I would associate marriage, having a child etc., taking me to a separate phase in my life now. A phase which I would dawn on me as 'I'm getting old now' and I no longer have within my grasp the power of my youth...
I hope this helps provide you with a rationale explanation.
2006-10-04 10:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by Christian_80 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi huni, it does sound like you have postnatal depression and you really should go and see your GP. He can advise you on whether you may need drugs to help or just some good old fashioned support from family and friends. Get a babysitter in and go and have some fun with your hubby. Dont stay at home all the time get out and about, try and meet other new mums who may feel the same as you, its not an uncommon thing to feel like you do. DONT let it get any worse.
Thinking of you! x
2006-10-04 10:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing that it could be is post partum depression. I experienced that when my daughter was six months old. They say it takes nine months to mess a womans body up and twice as long to get it back again. Try doing things differently. Get away from the house more. Be with friends and family. Talk it out.
2006-10-04 11:24:52 · answer #4 · answered by Kimmie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something in the marriage that you are not happy with and when you search for the problem then you can begin to work on you. I am going through a divorce and I don't suggest anyone get one if they can fix there. Maybe you just need to look within yourself and see if there is a problem. It all lies on you and the search for the problem
2006-10-04 10:58:31 · answer #5 · answered by */-Puss-n-Boots-/* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have your own life, a husband, a child.... time to find your Maker and His hopes and plans for your future. In Christ Jesus there is peace and joy and hope - so much that my life is filled to the brim and overflowing. I'm also married and with 4 kids. Challenges for sure, but all good. No regrets. All good. He is good. He set me free and His peace and joy is upon me and I'm sharing it with my family and others.
Bless you.
2006-10-04 11:21:03 · answer #6 · answered by Paolo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you must be sad since you had ur baby... Go to ur Doctor. You can get med. to help you feel better. This is most likely a medical issue.
2006-10-04 10:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by LeeLynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like maybe you are experiencing Postpartum depression. See your doctor, explain what you have been feeling and they will definately be able to help you out. Dont feel bad for reaching out as many women experience it and your not alone!
2006-10-04 10:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have some sort of chemical depression (baby blues). You should go to the doctor and do something about it before it's too late.
2006-10-04 10:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by yooo_adrien 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That could possibly be sign of depression... Sometimes when you have a baby our homones go crazy on us... It is a lot of work taking care of a baby... Not getting enough sleep can do it for you...
I would recommed talking with your doctor about this.....
GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS!
2006-10-04 11:09:17 · answer #10 · answered by Torres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋