I have been having dreams about my ex-boyfriend for almost a year now. I don't know why. I am with some one else and i have dreams about my ex. I don't talk to him and i don't see him. I think my dreams are trying to tell me something but i don't know what. Maybe its just me. So can someone please help me i am confused.
2006-10-04 03:40:30 · 20 answers · asked by Waterfairy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
maybe you still have feelings for him were you going uot for a long time ......yeah maybe you have'nt moved on even though ur with someone else.
2006-10-04 03:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion would be that you have never had real closure on the issue. You might subconsciously be wanting to resolve the issue. I don't know. I am not a doctor or expert of any kind. I just remember about 5 yrs ago going through the same thing and this dream book I read stated that it was likely to be the result of the relationship ending without closure. Also, to better interpret your dreams, don't only remember who is in the dream, but WHAT you see or the colors, etc. There are plenty of websites that you can check out for free that will give you some insight on dreams. It's been awhile since I checked one out but I think the one I used was dreamdoctor. com
2006-10-04 03:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by Erica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are usually an outlet for our fears, wishes etc so just analyse your feelings about this guy. Do you miss him? Is he better than the current guy? Do you regret leaving or breaking up? It could be sooooo much but if you honestly answer these and other questions you will get somewhere.
Good luck!
2006-10-04 03:49:11 · answer #3 · answered by Bootilicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been married 7 yrs and still have dreams about my high school sweet heart.. no harm it i think dreams are just dreams...they are your feelings..maybe you cared about this ex more than the one your with...But if you havent acted on anything then no harm done:)
2006-10-04 03:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by machele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our minds keep memories of goood and bad things that have happened in our lives. Re occuring dreams of you Ex are not uncommen. You experenced good times and madw good memories with him. This does not mean you have to seek him out and relive them. You have those experences in your memories. Cherrish those and make new ones with the new partner or find a partner you can build more memories with.
2006-10-04 03:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by Ben M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are only dreams - that's it. They are created from memory blended with creativity. Imagine what DaVinci used to dream of... In any event, I'd place no significance on the dreams.
2006-10-04 03:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by ericscribener 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The important thing is not who you dream about when you're sleeping, but who you see next to you when you wake up!Don't worry,it's because you are somehow "obssesed" with this idea!
Just relax and drink a cup of milk before you sleep
2006-10-04 03:52:00 · answer #7 · answered by fwtini k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been divorced for 6 years now, and sometimes I still dream about her.
2006-10-04 03:44:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do the same thing, It's usually when I'm thinking about him before I fall asleep or when I saw something that reminded me of him that day. It's no big deal, just your mind wondering.
2006-10-04 03:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by Amber S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dream of what ur subconcious mind is thinking. do you still think about him? wonder what he's doing? do you still like him? maybe your suposed to talk to him again...maybe he needs your help... call him up and say hey i may be crazy but i can't stop dreaming about you, is everything ok? good luck with that one
2006-10-04 03:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by lilkitty4eva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams usually reflect what is in subconscious mind. your security problems,your fears, your unfulfilled desires and so on.
One who does not dream at all and sleeps well is a happy man.
2006-10-04 03:45:09 · answer #11 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋