we decided that we would be in a relationship together again so we did thn i broke up with him and we were jus friends. But he told me tht he didnt want me to talk to anyone else or have sex with anyone else and i said the same so we thought of like an agreement tht we cant have sex or talk to anyone else or we would consider that cheatin on eachother. he thought of it and sense tht day we have been goin along with it until my bday weekend he decides to cheat. my bday was on a sat and i wanted to hang out with him but he said he couldnt cause he had to work with his dad,i said ok,went with my bestfriends, so lata on tht night i asked him can i come see him,he said yea around 9, so i went to his house,he wasnt picking up his phone he didnt answer the door so i left.i tried callin him millions of times all weekend from different phones i even went over his cousin house. I didnt get in touch with him till last night i wanted to know wht was going on and thts when he told me tht he cheated
2006-10-04 03:29:30 · 17 answers · asked by MsDiv06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The deal that you two made was really hard to keep. You weren't dating but you promised not to talk to anyone else and not to have sex with anyone else. I think that's crap. He didn't want you but he didn't want anyone else to have you either. That's wrong, you should move on cause obviously he's not worth waiting around for.
2006-10-04 03:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by Amber S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont see why you guy made that agreement. Might as well break it and just be friends, see other people and have sex with other people. And technically he wasnt your bf when he cheated on you, he was just a friend with benefit.
2006-10-04 03:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. Once a cheater always a cheater. He sounds like he doesn't have any respect for you. You deserve better than that.
2006-10-04 03:33:30 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both sound young...get over him. He's a loser. And there is no such thing as being together but not, and cheating on each other when your not "official".
2006-10-04 03:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave it alone.....leave him!! Things will only get worse if he would so boldly cheat on you and admit it that easy knowing that it was right after your birthday. Think about it- if he does it now he will do it again.
2006-10-04 03:33:23 · answer #5 · answered by Misty K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find other boyfriend, because in this world have many boys better than him and you must try to forget him from your mind.
2006-10-04 03:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand why you guys did that but it is your deal. So i would forget about the agreement and do what you want.
2006-10-04 03:41:43 · answer #7 · answered by Waterfairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone and run far away. there are nicer fish in the sea who know how to keep their peckers in their pants
2006-10-04 03:31:20 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him he does not deserve you. he is a scum bag for doing that.
2006-10-04 03:33:02 · answer #9 · answered by bthompsonusa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-10-04 03:32:05 · answer #10 · answered by justme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋