2006-10-04 03:28:13 · 18 answers · asked by mugsie91 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all you should get yourself on a good healthy diet and exercise program to prevent you from illness, not get a boyfriend. You need to do that for YOU. Second, when you're overweight, you just have to try harder, honey. You can't melt into the background. So, you have to dress nicer, have your makeup fresh and your hair done and SMILE. People will criticize a fat person in a heartbeat. Develop a sunny personality and a guy will be attracted to "you" for who you are inside. godloveya.
2006-10-04 03:32:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you show pple that you are uncomfortable with your weight then they wont be either. If you are ok with how you look then go out be confident, sexy, show some skin and what the heck flirt, girl!!! Am slightly on the big side and I dress to kill and have a guy whoz crazy about me and others who were too late coz I was taken and plenty more who are waitn for a breakup. Its all about you and the way you project yoself to the outside world.
On the other hand if you are uncomfortable with yoself then you may wanna lose a liitle, but careful now - booty is in and lots of guys love it!!!
2006-10-04 10:38:57 · answer #2 · answered by Bootilicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Size is never a big issue if you instill confidence in yourself. When you act confident, you will feel alluring and project an image that is positive. Dress in clothing that fits correctly that doesn't look 'trampy' and smile a lot. That's what most guys look for. Good luck Sweetie - it will take some practice, but you'll be fine. And ya know what else? Lots of men prefer larger women!
2006-10-04 10:34:07 · answer #3 · answered by Decoy Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell its hard bein overweight but you knoe you have to give it time try dressing up nicely nice hair but be yourself and be comfortable dont go crazy and you knoe not all guys like thick gurls just give it time i promise you a guy will def. be interested... but honey you have to ask yourself if you are happy will yourself if not then mayb you want to lose a little bit of weight if so do it the right way join a gym eat healthy if you cant go to gym ask you phys. ed teacher to help you out. But give it time honey overweight girls are always late bloomers
2006-10-04 10:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by Nena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find someone. How old are you? As people get older and mature, guys start to not care so much about physical appearance and care more about personality. If you are uncomfortable with your weight, start getting into more healthy habits. Start to eat a little better. walk everyday then slowly build it into a jog and then a run. Good luck.
2006-10-04 10:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by Muslimah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
build your self esteeme for starters. REAL men go for the person, not as much as the looks. And there are lots of heavy ladies married so weight is not a Issue to a lot of men out there. Some of us think the Paris Hilton look is Sick (I do)
2006-10-04 10:42:32 · answer #6 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately, that is the way of society. It wont change no matter wwhat city you live in, what age you become, etc.
Do not feel bad about yourself tho...because you have more to offer than men can see with just a quick glance. You will end up with a good man who hasnt quick judged you by your appearance (superficial)...
2006-10-04 10:32:46 · answer #7 · answered by shasta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. The people that are worth being with will not judge you solely based on how you look. Besides, some people find the curves sexy. You just haven't met the right person yet. Give it time.
2006-10-04 10:38:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look don't lose weight unless u want to not for no guy. cause u lose weight for him that doesn't mean u will get him and u will still be very unhappy with itself so do it for u. i ain't skinny either but i don't let that bother me i have people that love me and guys thts chancing me around and i don't want to lose weight until I'm ready cause if i do and its because somebody else my heart wont be in it. so just love itself more and i don't think guys don't want to not talk to u cause of that. where I'm from Detroit guys like big girls so stay true to u and god bless.
2006-10-04 10:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by MsDiv06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two options:
1. find a guy who likes overweight women and will admit it
2. lose some weight
2006-10-04 10:30:39 · answer #10 · answered by jwb674 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋