A friend and I when we were in high school both liked the same guy in fact we were both in love with him, he also was a friend of ours. But the guy and I eventually began a relationship and I didn't tell my friend and she ended up finding out from someone else. She stopped speaking to me for a while but then started coming around again and even tried to take my bf away from me. Now I'm married to this guy and she's also in a relationship with someone and has her own baby with her bf. Love doesn't go away overnight so I know she still has feelings for my husband but hasn't come out and said it or done anything to make me think that she does. My family is telling me to let her go it's not worth it but she's been my friend since childhood and although things happened in the past on both our ends people do grow-up right? So what should I do now? I mean my husband doesn't talk to her or anything anymore but do you think this friendship is worth it or not?
2006-10-04 03:22:29 · 4 answers · asked by bettyspagettii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I wouldn't give up your friendship if you have been friends since childhood. If she hasn't done anything to make you think she is interested in your husband then I think you should remain friends with her.
2006-10-04 03:29:33 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see what you are talking about. But listen i can see that yall are childhood friends but think about it if you love him and he loves you then what is there to worry about. You can still have feelings for someone else but long as you know who you are with and he knows who he is with then you straight. If your friend is with someone and is married and has a baby then she shouldnt be thinking about thinking about messing up some other relationship and if she really was your friend then that stuff would not be on her mind. Just see what is going on be friends and let her be friends with you and your husband but if she gets to close do what you have to do and not talk to her i am not telling you what to do but it is just the way it is. But that is how i feel and i hope that this helps you in a way if not im sorry i couldnt help you.
2006-10-04 10:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by SiSi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say just let it go. she might not even love him anymore. i know love doesn't go away but maybe she doesn't feel anything for him anymore. but if she does then don't be friends with her anymore. she would do anything to have him even if it means breaking up with her own family. if you get what i have to say.
2006-10-04 10:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by mommie2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally think you should let it go if she hasnt say anything then she's not in love with him anymore
2006-10-04 10:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by cindy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋