after he did this he lied to me for 6 yrs and the babysitter finally told me not him and just for sake i did kick his a** i have a 16 yr old son a 15 yr old daughter and a 12 yr old son and i told the older two and we do not live in a happy environment. again thank you all for shedding light on this situation
2006-10-04 03:12:19 · 12 answers · asked by penelope 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave and don't look back. The only thing to remember is when you leave and start divorce porceedings Hug your kids tight and tell them to remember not to blame themselves for this. Tell the younger on too he need to know as well . Take him for EVERYTHING! ALIMONY&CHILD SUPPORT. Good Luck & God Bless.
By the way if you are a christian it is in the bible somewhere I don't remember off hand that Adultrey is the ONLY reason for a marrige to split up so apperantly God would approve to.
2006-10-04 04:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only the "consolidated wisdom" of "your family" can take a well-considered decision... on the best course of action. Rank outsiders, may not prove to be of much help, and there is always a chance that outside advice, based on insufficient data, could go either way - favorable / unfavorable to your situation. After all, each of you, real human beings, in a real-life situation, have inalienable right to "well-informed advice," which, when implemented, will prove to be fruitful, in the best interests of each individual, your complete family, not to forget the baby-sitter who is also a human being. Ultimately, implementation of the decision, should send out robust signals to society. These signals (upon impact) should, actually, help refine society as a whole.
2006-10-04 10:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I admire you for still being there, but you have to realise that he lied to you for six years, how will you ever be able to believe him again?? You deserve so much better than this, you deserve to be happy and loved. your children are old enough to understand and not only that, when you leave tell them why you are and it will instill in their minds that nobody should have to put up with this, even if you are married... you should not feel guilty about leaving, it isnt you that ruined this mariage. go forward with you life and learn to live again and wait for your rainbow, it will happen!! Good Luck!!
2006-10-04 10:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by Debbie H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your children are old enough to know what is going on. Tell them the truth. They probably know already. You need to get a divorce. He does not deserve you. Move on with your life. Good luck and God Bless.
2006-10-04 10:48:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No problem. Much happiness to you and your kids.
2006-10-04 10:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you kids are old enough. Leave him.
2006-10-04 10:13:55 · answer #6 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Up to you. Leave or stay.
2006-10-04 12:44:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So..........are you and the babysitter still available?
2006-10-04 10:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
adulterers deserve what they get
2006-10-04 10:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD LUCK TO YOU AND YOUR KIDS.
2006-10-04 10:33:11 · answer #10 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋