I pushed and shoved and yelled. I'm really ashamed of my behavior. Anyone ever done that?
2006-10-04 02:58:31 · 8 answers · asked by elshay2 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Yes, surviving a bad break up is a part of life, and you will recognize afterwards that you learned a few lessons because of it. However; pushing and shoving is NOT part of a healthy/stable life. I have done this once before, and also felt ashamed. You need to figure out why you did it (anger, as a way to get control, to feel superior to him, pent up frustration, inability to think about your actions before doing them), before you can fix this problem. Work on fixing the 'why you did it', and think about the possible repercussions of this behavior. Both will help deter you from doing it again. Best of Luck, and remember that a violence-free lifestyle is a healthy/satisfying thing.
2006-10-04 03:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by Memphis qt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not quite to that extent, because I'm just not a physical person, but have I ever lost control of myself, emotionally? Oh yeah. It's okay honey. Let he who lives without sin cast the first stone, you know? We're all human and we all do things on occassion that maybe we shouldn't have, that we later regret. Be determined to learn from your mistake, to be a bigger person next time, and allow yourself to forgive yourself for it. You might even go one up and apologize to the person you pushed and shoved, admit you went over the top and that you're sorry for it. Chances are it'll make you both feel better.
2006-10-04 10:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I recently broke up with my fiancee and it is so horrible. I feel like my whole life has lost its meaning. What I would do to rewind the relationship and start over. He is such a great guy!
He still calls and stops over from time to time but assures me that we can never be together. I guess I have suddenly become a bootie call- and although I love him too much, I just cannot accept that. I would rather have him respect me and remember the good times together. I will never lose hope that he will return.
2006-10-04 10:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by halfbaked 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've all pretty much been there.
What's really embarrasing is when you live in an apartment building and get a little over the top with your partner, arguing and yelling. You just know your neighbors are all listening to every word, and the next time you see them it'll be a cringer, right?
2006-10-04 10:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by psioni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse. You store so many powerful emotions in yourself, they must come out. It's bad to keep 'em in you, it's much easier to kick the pillow, or scream your head of into it. release your emotions, it's the first step towards healing. Next thing you should do is to arrange with your friends not to be alone. Always have company. Distract your mind from thinking of him... Time helps... Good luck
2006-10-04 10:10:00 · answer #5 · answered by Looda_Plavusha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely. You'll find it really is true, time heals all wounds. Just try to find something else to occupy yourself like working out or concentrating on your studies. Good luck.
2006-10-04 10:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i have,but it only last a few days hahaha
2006-10-04 10:02:28 · answer #7 · answered by batsniperteng 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll eventually get over it no matter how bad it was.
2006-10-04 12:27:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋