When I was kissing my girlfriend (dating 2 years already), I put my hand under her shirt then she grabbed my hand and put it on her shirt to feel her. How come she doesn't feel comfortable me touching her under her shirt?
2006-10-04 02:58:15 · 11 answers · asked by Mr Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just do it. I'm sure she wouldn't mind if she loves you
2006-10-07 03:11:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Under the shirt touching is "taking it to the next level". Maybe she isn't ready to go to the next level. If you want to keep her, I wouldn't push her faster or further than she wants to go. "Under the shirt" is only a skip away from nudity and then intercourse. Once under the shirt touching is acceptable, what is there to prevent top off, clothes off, etc. I do wonder, BTW, about her touching of you. Does she? On top if the pants or under the pants? Flesh on flesh? These answers might provide a more accurate estimation of her reasoning for not wanting to go under the shirt.
2006-10-04 10:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by William T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she has class and self-respect. If you have to touch her under the shirt to have a relationship with her then you don't have much of a relationship.
2006-10-04 10:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by Senor Pig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she might not be ready to go all the way because she might not want the posibillity of having a baby or she might have been readybecause she may have molested or touched by some one
2006-10-04 10:03:12 · answer #4 · answered by momlostbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to her without pressuring her. if you have to ask a group of strangers about your relationship after 2 years, its not that big of a surprise that she doesn't trust you enough to be intimate. communication is the most important thing.
2006-10-04 10:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by videocrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her!!!!!!
I can list hundreds of reasons but you'll never know for sure til you ask HER!!
Your bold enough to put your hands under her shirt but you cant be bold enough to ask a simple question?
GEEZ!!!!
2006-10-04 10:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isnt ready. Dont push the issue if you really care about her.
2006-10-04 10:00:31 · answer #7 · answered by bradthepilot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should try askin her that polus u neva know maybe she woz on her period or jus simply doesnt like it der r meny reasons but ur better off askin her
2006-10-04 10:07:27 · answer #8 · answered by babii_angel24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be a lot of things. Is she flat chested? It may be she is self conscience.
2006-10-04 10:00:10 · answer #9 · answered by MCS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she'll let you know dont push it you might get your feelings hurt..
2006-10-04 10:03:51 · answer #10 · answered by inclips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋