How do you talk to new people that you do not know in class? I really am very shy. I need to learn how to speak my mind to other students.
2006-10-04 02:50:17 · 11 answers · asked by Ansem 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Break that shyness and start talking to someone before class. Or ask someone a question about class that may lead to a conversation.
2006-10-04 02:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by jessigirl00781 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing that makes a lot of people shy is fearing making a negative impression. Care less, stress less. That's my advice. This is way easier said than done. But, no question, caring less about how you are perceived is the key to becoming a social butterfly. -- Or, if not exactly that, then a person who can fearlessly state your opinion in public just like everybody else does (or seems to).
2006-10-04 09:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by martino 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you shy? That behavior accomplishes something for you. Probably makes you comfortable because you don't have to leave your comfort zone. The easiest way to start conversations is by asking questions. When you get an answer from someone, formulate another question from their answer, and soon you will be in a conversation.
2006-10-04 09:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be very shy, forget about that now days. Don't be afraid to talk to anyone. If they don't give you the time of day, they were'nt important enough to talk to anyway. The worst thing that could happen is getting beat up after, or during school. Raise some Hell
2006-10-04 09:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by fiend4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should be friendly with others. smile when someone speaks with u. ask some questions about the class or teachers but don't speak a lot. don't trust everyone from the first sight, keep studying others for a while before u choose your friends..
2006-10-04 09:54:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer up suggestions during class or ask them questions or for their opinion. This should get the conversation started.
2006-10-04 09:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was just like you and still am shy around other people, just try talking to them about an assignment or something, then get the conversion going on and just keep talking about something
2006-10-04 09:52:38 · answer #7 · answered by Pumpkin Nickel Bread 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just have the courage to do so... we will always have to do this. meeting new people in live and also leaving people in mind.
It;s time to step out of the comfort zone. try to talk to them relating to something interesting and topics that can be related to them.
Gd Luck
2006-10-04 09:55:40 · answer #8 · answered by Missing_Effort 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask questions, then listen for the answers... listen more than you speak, and don't get to personal at first
2006-10-04 09:51:32 · answer #9 · answered by corkscrewpirate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk about stuff that you are interesting in.
2006-10-04 09:51:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋