2006-10-04 02:33:06 · 5 answers · asked by unquenchablethirst 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is a difficult question to answer, it could go either way. I think you need to first figure out weather or not you think she may have the same feelings for you as you do for her. If down deep inside you, you think that there is a chance that she may have the same feelings for you as you do for her, than why not let her know. She may have the same kind of feelings for you, but she may either be too shy to tell you, or she may be thinking like you,what if I tell him and he doesn't feel the same way or what if it would wreck our friendship. I guess maybe you should test the waters out first. Maybe dish out some hints that you have these feelings for her and see if she catches on to them and see how she may react to them. But on the other hand if she doesn't have these feelings for you as you do for her, it may make her back off of you for sometime. That is why this is a hard question, and I think you need to think about it long and hard. To me I think the best lovers and the relationships that really work out the best are the ones that come from being best friends. Because you all ready know each others secrets, and really well, so To me the best relationships are those that come from being the best of friends first. So maybe test the water first, and just ease into it. who knows maybe she has the same feelings for you as you do for her. This is my advice.
2006-10-04 02:55:27 · answer #1 · answered by danielle m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will jeopardize your friendship possibly if she does not feel the same way. Are you sure?
2006-10-04 02:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can't keep both love and friendship. u have to choose .if u really love her as u say, then tell her and if u found out she doesn't have the same feeling . tell her u care about ur friendship and hope it lasts.but if she feels the same...em...em ... enjoy ur life man!! wish u luck
2006-10-04 02:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it definitely will affect your friendship. its either you move on to being more than friends or lose the friendship because it will be awkward afterwards. its a risk you have to take so goodluck!
2006-10-04 03:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by bloss_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well (i think) that it depends on her..if she loves you..but go on and tell her..i know its cliche but you really dont want to spend the rest of your life wondering...<33
2006-10-04 02:36:58 · answer #5 · answered by *~Angel_Eyes~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋