my ex a birthday card? We were together for 3 years and broke up a month ago. It was on good terms but brutal nonetheless. We haven't spoken since; should I try and break the silence and send her a card?
2006-10-04 02:17:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is difficult to make a decision. However, if you decide to keep a friendly relationship in the future, OK but if this will not occur in the following years then its best to let go completely. It will not complicate your life when you will have a new relationship.
2006-10-04 02:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you make sure she cannot misunderstand the meaning of the card. Don't put a long personal note in it or anything, just a simple signature. This is a peaceful gesture, without giving false hope. Good luck!
2006-10-04 09:24:15 · answer #2 · answered by sm2f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! A ex is an ex for a reason. That relationship is in the past so just bury that. If later in life he wants to be FRIENDS then that will be fine but for now leave it alone.
2006-10-04 09:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by ga_gyrl91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she more than likely feels the same way and doesn't want to feel rejected so u should b the bigger person and send the card
2006-10-04 09:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't send anything unless you are trying to woo her back.
Next year you could send a card, enough time will have passed then - but you won't want to by then!
2006-10-04 11:31:19 · answer #5 · answered by zara c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might make it look like you want to get back together so it depends if you want her to think that.
Sometimes a clean break is for the better so you can both get on with your lives.
2006-10-04 09:20:53 · answer #6 · answered by DemonicaB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be a nice gesture yes why not, especially if it ended on good terms
2006-10-04 09:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not....everyone wants to have their b-day remembered, but don't expect that this card will change anything or that you will become close again because of it.
2006-10-04 09:23:54 · answer #8 · answered by Airlantiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? What is the worst that could happen? She might not speak to you (nothing new??)
I would just make sure its a jokey one, and not a lovey dovey one
2006-10-04 09:20:29 · answer #9 · answered by OriginalBubble 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,you must be having doubts in your head about how you treated her(or her you)she will not thank you for it,you will be made to look a laughing stock,if you ever see her in street just say happy birthday
2006-10-04 09:31:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋