2006-10-04 01:55:38 · 34 answers · asked by theprettypoolplayer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nope, thats quite a normal thing for women to do. make sure he's got some nice friends u can shag too, maybe his brother as well :)
2006-10-04 01:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by zed 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's not wrong or right. But it can make life difficult for yourself if it means that you can't speak your mind or do what you want for fear of maybe losing that financial stability. Also, if things go wrong down the line you might find yourself in problems as you won't be able to carry on living the way you used to, and if you're assuming you're sorted for life then you probably won't be putting stuff aside for yourself to live off if the worst came to the worst. I was married to the daughter of a multimillionaire for a few years and he told me i was mad to be investing in pensions etc, so we spent all the money i earned and then a few years later when things didn't quite work out i was left with less than nothing. But it's good to be in charge of your own destiny. My ex-wife and her relatives all had to put up with all sorts of nonsense simply to stay in the parental good books, they had to turn the other cheek and take alot of sh't because they were worried about not getting their share of the inheritance because they'd never learnt to fend for themselves. Her parents in turn, well her slightly psycho mother, abused this position in order to build complete dependence.
2006-10-04 02:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by cameron s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why, can you not support yourself? This is 2006 not 1946, I was under the impression that men and women wanted to live equally!
I would never one minute leave someone, simply because they could not financially support me! Get a job!
2006-10-04 02:13:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Er, no. That's what every woman wants. And I believe most men want to be able to support their woman financially for the rest of their lives. If you don't love that person though...well it's another matter
2006-10-04 02:07:44 · answer #4 · answered by yes darling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love the person, then it's wrong. Of course being taken care of has its allure, but think about it, really. Are you alright with sacrificing your sense of self (because everything around you would belong to him/her, not you) for someone you don't even love? What happens when he/she starts to get an attitude because you're spending too much money and not bringing anything to the table? What happens when resentment begins to build up because you feel that you're missing out on the sort of love that other couples find? Think it through very carefully and ask yourself if you're prepared to deal with that.
2006-10-04 03:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by Little Girl Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is the only reason to be with them, then yes, it is wrong. If you don't love the person, both of you will be miserable and just going through the motions of a pretend relationship. Don't be a gold digger !
2006-10-04 03:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by turbietech 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is going to tell you that this is the wrong thing, however, i dont think so. i think to want to be financially stable is not wrong. actually, everyone, but rich people, has a fear of not being able to take care of themselves. so if you want to do it. but you will eventually, feel a loss in your life, you will need some kind of love and affection. best of luck.
2006-10-04 01:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can`t be with someone for the sake of how big there bank balance is. if you want to be financially sorted for the rest of your life get a career in a high payed job!!!!! you give woman like me a bad name. i never ask my husband for money unless i am desperate as i don`t want him to think im a money grabber!!!!!! even though i know he dosen`t thing of me this way i still don`t like asking. GET A JOB????????
2006-10-04 02:09:47 · answer #8 · answered by shayney boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The person that I am with now is here for that reason. And we are thinking of adding one other for it too. In this day and age of HIGH prices, it makes sense and helps out to have a larger "family" to make it and have more too.
2006-10-04 02:11:38 · answer #9 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I presume you mean if you dont love them? then yes its very wrong! You cant be with someone for the materialistic things they can offer you - even though yes it would beat having to work etc - but it wont work out longterm - they'll soon see through it.
2006-10-04 02:14:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not wrong, but it is not the smartest thing to do though. You always want to be able to support yourself just in case.
2006-10-04 01:58:23 · answer #11 · answered by justme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋