My ex hurted me a lot when i got to know he has a great girlfriend now n because of her he had broken up with me. Im totally down n i have to always cry. My life is ruined. What to do now?
2006-10-04 01:23:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hun ur life is not ruined i was with a guy about a year and he has just dumped me maybe a month or 2 ago.... heartbreak is a shitty thing in life but its also a big part in life ur going to have to deal with it. its not easy but i hate this line... there are more fish in the sea. theres never going to be a fish quite like urs but theres others that are nicer and better..sunds like ur still young...plus theres college to look at. hot college sexy guys ow! lol. u dont need a guy to make u feel like u have a reason to live. u need to learn to be independent for urself. say to urself "**** guys i dont need a guy to tell me im prettyor sart" or whatever u think u need to make u happy... plus wheres ur friends? friends will always be there. now... get off ur crying *** and smile a pretty face everyone wants to see cuz u dont need that bullshit from a guy.
2006-10-04 01:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by Harmony's Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okkk u siad he has a girl friend now and he left u for her . okk did u know that at times the truth is the best way to find out things. like now u know he left u for her means that u are not being horned anymore? i cant say what relationship u had with him but if it was deep am sorry and its ok to cry, but u should look at it in a different light, say it was probably for a reason that u found out so u can get over him and move on now realising that he is not what u would want in ur life . cause he is not what u thought he would have been its not ur fault baby! live and let live !
2006-10-04 01:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple...treat yourself. Get your hair done, nails, have a girls night, go out to the bar (if you're of age), do anything and everything that makes you happy. Not much point crying over something you can't control. Get up every morning and look in the mirror and tell yourself something that makes you feel amazing. Wether its, " You are beautiful" or "Damn, I'm sexy!!" Whatever works...don't laugh, it works.
Treat yourself how you would want everyone else to treat you and you will be suprised the kind of people you meet and get to know.
Good luck! And if all else fails, write him a nasty note with all of your feelings and the burn it...It's a good way to get things off your chest without hurting anyone.
2006-10-04 01:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't sense depressed approximately this. i'm tremendously optimistic you does no longer desire to be in a relationship with somebody who isn't with it a hundred% of the time. that could in easy terms make you sense even worse if she desperate to end it wheile you 2 have been even closer, which does no longer be superb in any respect. the shown fact that she assist you comprehend early on, provides a good indication that she isn't waiting for a relationship proper now. in basic terms don't be frightened approximately it, because of the fact she'll possibly attempt to come back with you quickly sufficient.
2016-10-01 22:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....seeing as how your life is ruined I suspect that there isn't much left to salvage. I know what I'd do if my life was ruined but I'm afraid that I cannot make such a serious recommendation to you based upon your statement.
However I'm sure you'll figure something out.
Good luck.
2006-10-04 01:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight girl! I mean not to harm anybody. Just show him that it’s his lost not yours. Why not treat yourself good, do some make-over and work out to uplift your confidence. And try to change your personality, I mean if you’re not that sociable, be sociable to make other guys notice you. Make him jealous. Accept suitors and now you are free to do that. Do what will make him mad at you, don’t sulk and cry like a little girl. Wake up girl! He dumped you meaning you need to move forward and reverse the situation that who looks trash now. I go for you girl, you don’t deserve him. He’s a moron!
By the way don't kneel on him just to make him return to you. Don't you ever do that! Love yourself.
2006-10-04 02:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by herzae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, be happy. There are plenty of fish in the sea, and you obviously have the right bait as you hooked one ... although he strayed, as most guys do.
Quit crying, get out and enjoy life; feeling sorry for yourself is such a waste of time and of no benefit to you.
Suggestion: Learn to SPELL and how to use the ENGLISH LANGUAGE. Maybe you can find someone who likes you for your mind ... those folk don't stray as much. "hurted me"? Gawd!
2006-10-04 01:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by Tad Dubious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you have to learn to speak proper english. Secondly stop crying and be glad that looser is out of your life. Call me and we can hook up...I will show you a good time.
2006-10-04 01:27:27 · answer #8 · answered by rickytruetell 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
at least you know he doesn't love you now you can move on the hurt will pass and your life will improve trust me,don't dwell he isn't
2006-10-04 01:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by debra o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept that you're second best. That's the way it is. Don't worry, some loser out there will want you.
2006-10-05 11:32:05 · answer #10 · answered by cdrfish7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋