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i was born in July 13 1982.
lacking self esteem and confidence. I always blame my self for doing wrong and put too much burden on me....i hate my self so much. How can i love it>
Why im here on earth. it sucks

2006-10-04 01:14:24 · 7 answers · asked by haya D 1 in Social Science Psychology

7 answers

Get deeply involved with important charitable work to benefit others, or to benefit animals. Stop dwelling on yourself.

2006-10-04 02:12:23 · answer #1 · answered by June smiles 7 · 0 0

It sounds like you have a couple of obvious issues here.
First: You are probably a bit smarter than the people around you, or have been told that you are. It puts a lot of pressure on you to be above average, and because of that you don't allow yourself failure.
Second: You are struggling to see your own impact on the world. You need to find a venue where you can have a HANDS ON influence on someone or something.
What you need to do for yourself is learn to allow yourself mistakes. It's not fair for you to tell yourself you have to be perfect. When you do that you're just forcing yourself to fail. The key is to make a new mistake every time. Don't keep making the same ones over and over again.
As for your second problem. Volunteer for something. If you can manage to go overseas then do it. Spend a month working in an orphanage in China, or helping to plant a crop in the Congo. You will truely see that what you are doing is changing someones life. If you can't go overseas, go to an animal shelter, a battered womens shelter, a soup kitchen, somewhere where you find the most destitute members of our own society and help out. This will give you purpose in life, and make you see what good things you have, and what good things you have to give to others. Good Luck

2006-10-04 03:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by awakeatdawn 3 · 0 0

First if all Hi
second I am with u abouy how much is earth sucks
but I realy think that u should find some thing in urself u love
look again and again till find some thing
promise me that u ganna do it PLZ

2006-10-04 01:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by scream55 2 · 0 0

YOU are a mixture of what you think about urself and what you think others think about you. Here' s a fact: the only important one is what you think about urself. Just go out and do things that make you feel good. Have faith that you can be somebody. And never give a **** about anything negative someone says about you!

2006-10-04 02:13:32 · answer #4 · answered by Buddha 2 · 0 0

Do something about it. Like take up Engineering or something. Yeah. Challenge yourself and never worry about things that you cannot do.

Or perhaps join an exercise program. Outdo yourself. Join a marathon. Why worry about competition when the only person you are fighting is yourself?

2006-10-04 01:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you are somebody with a life, with mind, heart, lungs, arms and legs.. with full health...
You could have been different.....

are you happier now?

2006-10-04 01:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by Amantia A 3 · 0 0

you are a woman with a full of boredom in life....:D

2006-10-04 01:32:31 · answer #7 · answered by j 2 · 0 0

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