well yeah i am gay and i like this stright guy but i dont know what to do
2006-10-04 01:02:27 · 21 answers · asked by Bicente G 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i wish it was that easy to get over it, to just let it go, but you know what love is not that easy to just let it slip out of your hands, i wish it could be that easy, but lifes not fair.
2006-10-04 12:02:47 · update #1
You said that he was straight, so why can't you two be just friends and let it at that? Trying anything other then just being friends could end the relationship that you already have with him. If he stated that he was straight already and that's the way he wants to be then anything more that you want from him is being disrespectful towards him for your own greediness, and that applies to straights as well!!! If it happens then it happens.
2006-10-04 01:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by WV_Nomad 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Stright?
2006-10-04 14:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by Necole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know that he's straight then why are you trying to get with him? If he is a friend of yours then just leave it alone and find someone else because this could hurt your friendship and I'm pretty sure you don't want that to happen. Why do we as gays try to get with straight men? If their STRAIGHT then their STRAIGHT!
Theirs nothing we can do to change it so let's stop.
2006-10-04 04:33:30 · answer #3 · answered by Little_Major 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do, he's not going to ever be interested in you, his body chemistry doesn't work that way.
My advice is to get involved in GLBT activities, there isn't anything around where you are (you don't say how old you are), then contact the PRIDE group in your area. Whenever anyone has an attraction for someone who is impossible to get involved with, distancing yourself and getting busy doing things that distract you is your best recourse.
2006-10-04 01:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
try to find someone else. Straight guy will want a woman. In the off chance he lets you do stuff to him, that will not satisfy you the rest of your life
2006-10-04 03:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in for trouble. It is normal for us to find ourselves attracted to a straight man on occasion, but there really isn't anything that we can do about it.
I have had women attracted to me in the past and they were in the same boat.
You need to move on and leave this person alone.
2006-10-04 03:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by Yikes! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen bro ! I am normal and I would be offended by H.S. advances. In 66 years it has happened a few times and I cut those persons loose. I advise Don't do it.
2006-10-04 01:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by samssculptures 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can continue to like him, but there is no way to make a straight guy gay just like there is no way to make a gay guy straight. Enjoy your crush!
2006-10-04 01:51:21 · answer #8 · answered by donrull 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep your damned hands to yourself and save yourself from getting a punch in the nose.
2006-10-04 19:17:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in that position too, the best advice i can give is stuff i got from my friends: admire from afar, talk alittle bit, flurt and look for any response (but don't be surprised if there isn't one) and just wait.
you can make this fun for yourself, it doesn't have to be full of pressure and worry.
2006-10-04 20:42:49 · answer #10 · answered by Narry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋