im recently attached with someone from my school.he insisted to be with me.and so i accepted him.but the thing is i dont have any feelings for him.i like his friend.and his friend knows about it.i dont know till when must i lie to myself.anyone have any good opinion??
2006-10-04 00:58:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the reason why i got with him was because i dont want to hurt his feeling.
2006-10-04 01:02:30 · update #1
he even cared to do everything for me.i dont know how to seat down and talk to him.and tell him my true feelings.im just too scared to hurt him.his too nice,
2006-10-04 01:07:43 · update #2
If you have no feelings for him then there is no reason for you to be with him. I don't care how much he "insisted" you are wasting your time and his.
2006-10-04 01:03:45 · answer #1 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about this nonsense relationship. Please focus on your studies, or maybe how to become a scholar. There are plenty of time to have a relationship after you have finished all your studies. Your parents will be very proud, should you achieve to become a scholar and not learn how to falling in love in school.
2006-10-04 09:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attached like how? with handcuffs? So he insisted to be with you? only you can allow this to happen. If you feel threaten please please go to a teacher or your guidance counselor for some help in feeling safe about what you NEED to do. He can control your feelings if you like his friend then let this person know and go from there. I hope this helps in anyway.
2006-10-04 08:04:09 · answer #3 · answered by dobsonrhonda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U CAN'T ALWAYS PUT OTHERS FEELINGS FIRST. I'M SURE HE FEELS THAT UR FEELINGS TOWARDS HIM ARE NOT THE WAY HE WOULD LIKE THEM TO BE. JUST DISCUSS IT WITH HIM, IN THE GENTLEST WAY POSSIBLE, AND WITH THE POSSIBILITY TO HURT HIS FEELINGS. EVERYONE HAS THE RIGHT TO BE HAPPY AND SEEK HAPPINESS. UR NOT HAPPY WITH THIS RELATIONSHIP, SO DON'T CONTINUE IT. THE MORE IT CONTINUES, THE MORE PAINFUL IT WILL BE FOR HIM TO ACCEPT THE FACT THAT U DON'T WANT HIM.
2006-10-04 08:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes in relationships you cant help but hurt the other persons feelins. tell him you are sorry, but you dont want to waste his or your time. what is the worst that can happen if you tell him? what is the worst that can happen if you dont? ask your self those questions and see if its worth telling the truth.
2006-10-04 08:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by whaaatthe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have no feelings for him then why are you with him, call things off now before this lad gets to hurt
2006-10-04 08:00:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to sit down and talk to him and let him know you have no feelings for him befor some thing big happens that he wants more
2006-10-04 08:03:41 · answer #7 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is his friend better than him?u must choose between the two of them!!!!!!!!!!immediately.......if u dont,u r like dragging both of them with u!!!!!!r u sure u have no feeling 4 d boy u with???u must be sure of wat u r feeling!!!!!if u r still not so sure,i will prefer u to be wif d boy u with now!!!!!!!!!but if u r really sure,tell ur boy but if u r not selfish,u wont stead with his friend!!!!!!!coz if both of them r good friends,most likely,u will mess up everything!!!!!!see who is more fit to be yours!!!!!!!!!!!!list down all their characteristics so dat you will know the better one.....if u really love his friend,u would want him to be happy for not targetting him!!!if i were u,i will break up with my boy and be single!!!if u can't dump ur boy,then i think u better not,,,everi1 can learn how to love somebody!!!so the good side of him.....
2006-10-06 03:40:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up ! He insisted to be with you so you agreed, if you don't want to hurt him, then get yourself hurt
2006-10-05 03:57:56 · answer #9 · answered by Rootbeer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not continue with this relationship,you should end it fast.
2006-10-04 22:56:18 · answer #10 · answered by eZY jOHn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋