2006-10-04 00:42:04 · 11 answers · asked by amin 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
The options are not easy...
Personally, I would heavily advise to go the route of adoption. (Only if she absolutely doesn't want the baby.) That way, you don't have the guilt of the abortion- and the baby will grow up with a loving family and turn into an adult, which may or may not want to meet up later in life. You'll have the option with adoption! Ooo, I rhymed...
I was pregnant, my boyfriend at the time dropped me like a hot potato. (Nice, eh?) I was in a bad time of life back then, I weighed out my options. I'm glad I kept the wee one- he straightened out my life for me. Baby therapy, go figure! LOL
2006-10-04 01:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by biology_freak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well quite simply mistakes happen....if a person finds they are pregnant, and choose not to keep the baby they have two avenues they can take......abortion or adoption.....both lengthy, painful and costly procedures, so rather than falling pregnant in the first place, or some advice for the next time she plans sex.....abstinence and or birthcontrol are always better options.....safer and cheaper in the long run too.
2006-10-04 00:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all she needs to make sure she's pregnant then she needs to weigh the options if she is both abortion and adoption are painfull and you never forget either one if she is not pregnant and does not want to have a baby in the near future the most effective form of birth control is abstanace then after that a woman has a small percentage of a chance to get pregnant even with all other forms of birth control
2006-10-04 01:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by prissymiss1968 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if a woman doesnt want to get pregnant she should use birth control. Many different kinds out there today. and the solution, is live with the consequences of not using birth control.
2006-10-04 00:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by jeanjean 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Then she shouldn't have had sex without protection in the first place. There's nothing she can do.
What if her parents had gotten rid of her? Abortion is not always the best solution as her womb could be affected. Please think about the pros and cons. A baby is a life not a tissue.
2006-10-04 01:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if a women didnt want to be pregnant, she shouldnt of had sex, it is awful to get an abortion, that is really bad to do, the baby has feelings, it can feel it i do believe, but if she decides she dont want it, then put the baby up for adoption
2006-10-04 01:16:17 · answer #6 · answered by hotty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's easy. It's quite legal in most 'civilised' countries to have your baby murdered and then just carry on as if nothing has happened. What a world!
2006-10-04 00:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well with careful thinking she can go on into decision making and then after what ever decision that she has made then she has to ask herself if she can live with that decision. Good Luck
2006-10-04 00:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by shellafatts2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sould have thought about that before she did the deed.
2006-10-04 00:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by livlafluv 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you really are pregnant and you dont want to be there is always options such as abortion
2006-10-04 00:45:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋