Ok so here is the lowdown...im married, 26yrs old, been trying to conceive for 6months now, for the first 5months we was trying everyday which i dont think did us any justice as i hear that takes about 24/48 hours for sperm count to shoot back up! Anyways so this month wanted to do things differently tried every other day if not every 2 days so it enabled the sperm to get stronger. Im very regular my cycle is like clockwork 27days every month i used to be on the pill over 2 yrs ago i stopped it so been clear for over 2 yrs now plus i wasnt on it for very long either. I cant wait to be a mummy i know i shouldnt stress but i get very excited :) ...anyways 1 week before im about to due started to have back pains and really light period pains in my lower stomach, i feel very bloated and feel sick at times, l should be getting my period on the 7th October in 3 days time....had sex lastnight and when i wiped was a light pink twinge just about noticed it, anybody else experienced this?
2006-10-04 00:32:38 · 7 answers · asked by missy 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
All of the thingsyou asked about do not tell a person if they are pregnant or not. Infact, you could miss your period for 9 months, put on weight enough to move into maternity clothes, have morning sickness and all of it and not be pregnant you could even give birth to what in lay terms is called a hair ball but is actually hair and an accumulation of dead cells that your body produces internally to make you think you are pregnant when you want to be so badly. The fact however is that if you can put your desire out of mind and live the way you did before you decided it was time for a baby, you have a lot higher chance of becoming pregnant sooner. I am not joking. There are many couples who knocked themselves out trying and never had a baby so they adopted. I believe you can guess what happened as soon as the adoption went through. Yes, the mom became pregnant. Why?
The reason is simply that the stress was too great and under the pressure those women, like alot of others, were given red lights from their bodies. They simply were not able to reproduce under great stress. Once the pressure was off-bingo! So if you find that you are not pregnant, maybe you should just kind of forget about the whole idea and focus on other things but go on with life
that is not in the sexual pressure cooker. You might be surprised with the outcome! Give it a decent amount of time tho with the pressure turned off, by which I mean months. If that does not work, maybe it is time to see a doctor. Perhaps there is a blockage or something else such as an imbalanced hormone count causing a problem. If not, then it may be time to have hubby go in for a checkup. Perhaps it just is not in the cards for the two of you to have your own baby. In that case, you might want to consider the alternatives such as insemination by a donor or adoption. Now if you happen to find out a few weeks down the line from now, that you are pregnant already, then congratulations are in order. Meantime, simmer down and be patient. All good things come with patience. May God bless you.
2006-10-04 01:06:02 · answer #1 · answered by beverly p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are going to get your period. My period is light at first when i start then the next few days the flow get heavier. Getting pregnant just takes time and patience. It all depends when God is ready to bless you with one. I know the feeling every month that you go through. You just do not want your period to come and also want a positive pg test. I know the feeling. I am now trusting God to bless me with one soon. Children are gifts from Him. He will bless you with on His time though. That is where patience comes into play. GOOD LUCK and GOD BLESS!
2006-10-04 04:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by DO IT! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if the period is late, wait until a few days after your period is due, then take the test, i dont think you are....sorry to say, i feel you are acctually getting your period early, and that you are suffering from pms symptoms.....happens to me too sometimes. Good luck though :D and try not to stress, because it may hold the period off longer.....
2006-10-04 00:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the pink might be the beginning of your period, i dont think you would be getting symptoms of being pregnant yet, as u would only be a couple of week pregnant. And usually the first symptom is tender breast or nipples. not back pain. sounds like pms, but hopefully its not, due to you wanting to be pregnant so badly. Hopefully u dont get your period on the 7th, good luck!!!!
2006-10-04 00:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by jeanjean 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend that tried the same thing having sex every day and then every other day and no baby.Then her and her husband stopped trying for a few months and when they least expected she was pregnant.These things happen like that you should take it easy and wait till' it happens.
2006-10-04 04:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by mmwhatts 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i feel if not anything has converted, the fish is pregnant, if the fish had an contamination or every other challenge, there could be different indicators or signs instead of the enlarged stomach.
2016-08-29 08:08:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait, if you don't start give it a week then take a test.
2006-10-04 00:38:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋