Its my friends birthday and we have planned to go out on Friday nite. One of my other friends has now decided not to come out with us because the birthday girl didnt ask her herself to come out with us, another friend of ours did, (which the birthday girl knew about) even though the birthday girl and all of us does want her there. i think the situation is totally childish. we have all been friends for years!!Do i say something or let them just get on with it???
2006-10-04 00:31:34 · 20 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why not just get the birthday girl to give her a call and ask her to go out on friday nite. If she starts a fuss then shes cutting her nose off to spite her face and she wants to bloody grow up and get a life and realise that she can not be the center of attention all the time!!
Hope you have fun though, with or without her!
2006-10-04 00:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jo. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi just stay out of it. She has just taken a funny because she may think that the birthday girl doesnt want her there, there is obvoiusly something in the girls head to make her act this way especially since you have all been friends for ages. Yes it is childish but some girls are. She has see her butt because your friend didnt ask her herself. If all of you want her to be there then why dont the birthday girl tell her this to her face. But if she is going to be in a funny mood you dont want her to spoil it for the rest of you.
If your like me and you cant do anything but say something then just tell the girl who wont come to the party to stop being so childish and come along as its only her who will be missing out. Maybe the birthday girl should talk to her to clear the air.
2006-10-04 06:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is completely childish and it's also selfish that she is creating this unnecessary trouble before your friends birthday. It's her special day and instead of behaving like an immature brat, she should be trying to make it special for her.
Your friend shouldn't have to feel she must personally ask her own friends to join her at her party because she expects everyone to be there anyway and this girl should already know that she doesn't need a personal invite!
I think you should tell her to get a grip and stop being childish because the birthday girl wants her there anyway and if she doesn't want to ruin her birthday then she should start acting like she wants to be there!
2006-10-04 01:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by xsammyx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her let her know that she's being silly about the whole thing and that if nobody wanted her there she would have never been invited in the first place. She's not new to the friendship so she should know that even though the birthday girl didn't personally invite her she welcome to come. Sometimes we don't realize how silly we're being when it comes to things like this we want to be recognized personally and when we're not we act like babies until someone brings us back to reality. So, not in a mean way but a good friend way tell her about herself and let her know you'd like for her to accompany you guys but the decision is hers. Good luck
2006-10-04 00:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by tawny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell the birthday girl that you know that she wants the other friend to go also, so just ask her like she asked the other friend
2006-10-04 01:39:38 · answer #5 · answered by Ilovechristjesustheking 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to see both sides. Suggest birthday girl calls and explains no offence meant. Keep out of it generally though- they need to discuss any hurt feelings together and the more people get involved, the bigger it becomes. And the messenger usually gets shot...
2006-10-04 00:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not get birthday girl to ring her and just say "checking you knew about friday - hope that your coming!" that should solve the situation and hopefully make the girl feel a little silly that she over-reacted!
2006-10-04 00:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by Empress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask the birthday girl to invite the other one then? And maybe she could say that she didn't do that before because someone else had already invited her, and she didn't find it necessary to do it herself...
2006-10-04 00:34:24 · answer #8 · answered by Naughty boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and enjoy yourself, if a friend is being childish just tell her that she will miss out on the fun and to grow up. a real friend will take honesty.
2006-10-04 00:33:49 · answer #9 · answered by vicki r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you tell the birthday girl to call your friend and sort it
2006-10-04 10:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by baby faced satan woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋