I tryed adding this to my previous question but it didnt let me so here i go again had ectopic removed in july they saved my tubes been checked for pıd and ınfections got all clear so basıcally just due to bad luck.ıts now 9 weeks since my op and the docter at the time said wait 3 months and then you can start trying again trouble is i feel like the next 3 weeks are 3 years id like to start trying now its only 3 weeks till the docter said it was ok anyway do you think i should just bide the time or take a chance and start trying again now?
2006-10-04 00:26:02 · 12 answers · asked by Hayley 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
My friend had an ectopic pregnancy removed about seven years ago and she was told to wait for two years. Alot must have changed since then if they only told you to wait three months, i know it's hard to wait but please follow your doctors advice it's given for a reason!
Good luck and hope you have a good pregnancy, I know what it's like to lose I've had two miscarriages but I have got three gorgeous children now.
2006-10-04 02:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by vanessa s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find out what the doctor says about thd other first, I would say that the doctor tells you a certain amount of time to be on the safe side but you are probably fine, If you want to go for it then at the end of the day you need to be having sex about 10days after you finish your last period to conceive so it will take a little while any way.
Good Luck
2006-10-04 00:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by damien r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to make sure that everything is ok
the doc say 3 month wait 3 I understand about been impatient
but 3wks is not that much when you think of the end resolte
Good Luck
2006-10-04 00:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait and give your body time to heal. Your uterus has been in "trauma" and it needs time to heal. It would be even worse if you got pregnant again only to miscarry because your body wasn't healed up enough to carry it. Those 3 weeks will fly by if you keep yourself busy and try not to think about it.
Just tell yourself, "a healthy baby will come in time and my body needs to be in the best shape it can be so I need to rest and relax and wait it out, cause it will be worth it in the long run to wait 3 more weeks".
Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-10-04 00:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by ceecee_41004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your body needs time to recoop from having surgery. You wouldn't want to get pregnant and then because your body wasn't better you miscarried or have problems with the pregnancy. I know it feels like forever(i had 2 miscarriages and had to wait to try again) but it will be the best.
Good luck!!!
2006-10-04 02:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by sensual_sweet1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your doctor knows better than you so i would personally wait. i know it seems like a long time but if you try and put it to the back of your mind it will go quicker. if you got pregnant now you will only worry that things will go wrong again . . . good luck
2006-10-04 00:30:20 · answer #6 · answered by Empress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till the time is up then you know that it OK you don't want to put yourself into danger good luck for 3 weeks time
2006-10-06 12:03:31 · answer #7 · answered by KEL B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the chances are you wont fall pregnant stright away, you may have even missed ovulation, I wouldnt actively try and concieve by having sex all day everyday but just enjoy time with your partner, once you have a baby you will wish you could pop it back for an evening
goodluck x
2006-10-04 00:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait
2006-10-04 00:27:46 · answer #9 · answered by mum-2-be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your doctor.
2006-10-04 00:32:04 · answer #10 · answered by StolenAnjel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋