When is it appropriate to drop the "L" word without fear of scaring the other person?
2006-10-04 00:17:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have been married for 26 years.....ok....now listen....here's the secret.....When you feel it in your heart, that you know for sure....no questions, that this person loves you more than anything.....like do they put you first at every thing,If you really love this person sex is important but not the most important and if you cant have a good time doing something, and not sharing it with them, it seems trivial.....and dont confuse the "L" word with lust!
2006-10-04 00:31:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, it is hard to determine whether or not you are in love or merely falling love. There is a very fine line between the two. However, if you "love" them, then the falling part is over. Also, there is never an "appropriate" time to tell someone that you love them, it just happens. If you love them, tell them. Sometimes, you have to just take the chance. You don't know whether or not you are going to scare them, it is only a part of the "love" process. But, I do believe that there is that one moment in time when things are supposed to happen. Don't worry. You'll find that moment. And, don't be afraid of it. Take a deep breath and jump. Good Luck.
2006-10-04 07:25:54 · answer #2 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And the difference is???If expressing this feeling is going to scare the other person then you are not ready to dance. So go ahead and make the statement anyway. Usually if you have done your homework diligently then you know if the feeling is reciprocal or not and then you are just stating the obvious.
2006-10-04 07:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by The Stainless Steel Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't drop the "L" word without scaring someone if you can't tell they are in love too.
2006-10-04 07:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋