see I had been in a very emotionally abusive realtionship .. and i want out its been 15 yrs, I don't have many friends and I need to get rid of yet another loser
2006-10-04 00:16:04 · 4 answers · asked by krashing_now 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well for the person who said I would have left already if I had been strong enough I never wanted to put on here that I had broken bones .. many actually. And he would post bail get out and beat me again .. but to all the others who showed much compassion .. thank -you so much and that information was great its what i needed I got my answer .. thanks again
2006-10-04 05:57:28 · update #1
p.s. to flagger .. I realise you do not know any better but "my attiude " is docile to this man .. I am afraid .. but If I wanted to continue being a victim I would not have asked the question. there are circumstances you would have no idea about , andI would NOT want on here. but I understand its your opinion and you havea right to it I asked .
2006-10-04 06:01:21 · update #2
If you are in danger, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233).
these are other facilities:
New Jersey Coalition For Battered Women Trenton NJ 08690 (609)584-8107 State Hotline: (800)572-7233
Domestic Abuse & Rape Crisis Center P.O. Box 423 Belvidere NJ 07823 Business #: 908-453-4121 Hotline/Crisis: 908-453-4181
Solace/YWCA P.O. Box 1309 Blackwood NJ 08012 Business #: 609-227-1800 Hotline/Crisis: 609-227-1234
The Safe House P.O. Box 1887 Bloomfield NJ 07003 Business #: 201-759-2378 Hotline/Crisis: 201-759-2154
Resource Center for Women & Their Families 95 Foothill Road Bound Brook NJ 08805 Business #: 908-302-2545 Hotline/Crisis: 908-685-1122
Family Violence Project P.E.A.C.E. Suburban Center Caldwell College Caldwell NJ 07006 Business #: 201-226-6166
Solace YWCA Urban Outreach Center Camden NJ 08103 Business #: 609-963-0626
Coalition Against Rape and Abuse P.O. Box 774 Cape May Court NJ 08210 Business #: 609-522-6489 Hotline/Crisis: 609-522-6489
YWCA of Eastern Union County Elizabeth NJ 07201 Business #: 908-355-1500 Hotline/Crisis: 908-355-4357
Women's Crisis Services Flemington NJ 08822 Business #: 908-788-7666 Hotline/Crisis: 908-788-4044
People Against Spouse Abuse P.A.S.A. P.O. Box 755 Glassboro NJ 08028 Business #: 609-881-9536 Hotline/Crisis: 609-881-3335 Toll Free #: 609-848-5557
Alternatives to Domestic Violence Hackensack NJ 07601 Business #: 201-487-8484 Hotline/Crisis: 201-487-8484
Shelter Our Sisters P.O. Box 202 Hackensack NJ 07602 Business #: 201-836-1075 Hotline/Crisis: 944-9600
Women's Center of Monmouth County Hazlet NJ 07703 Business #: 201-264-4111 Hotline/Crisis: 908-264-4111
Strengthen Our Sisters P.O. Box U Hewitt NJ 07421 Business #: 201-728-7835 Hotline/Crisis: 201-728-0007
Battered Women's Program of the YWCA- Jersey City Jersey City NJ 07306 Business #: 201-333-5700 Hotline/Crisis: 201-333-5700
Womanspace, Inc. Lawrenceville NJ 08648 Business #: 609-394-0136 Hotline/Crisis: 609-394-9000 Toll Free #: (800)572-7233
National Council of Jewish Women Livingston NJ 07039 Business #: 201-994-4994
Passaic County Women's Center Madison NJ Business #: 201-881-1450
Jersey Battered Women's Services P.O. Box 363 Morris Plains NJ 07950 Business #: 201-455-1256 Hotline/Crisis: 201-267-4763
Woman Aware, Inc. P.O. Box 312 New Brunswick NJ 08903 Business #: 908-249-4900 Hotline/Crisis: 908-249-4504 Toll Free #: (800)572-7233
Family Violence Program Newark NJ 07106 Business #: 201-399-3400 Hotline/Crisis: 201-484-4446
Domestic Abuse Services, Inc. P.O. Box 805 Newton NJ 07860 Business #: 201-579-2386 Hotline/Crisis: 201-875-1211
Atlantic County Women's Center P.O. Box 311 Northfield NJ 08225 Business #: 609-646-4376 Hotline/Crisis: 609-646-6767
Passiac County Women's Center P.O. Box 244 Paterson NJ 07513 Business #: 201-881-1450 Hotline/Crisis: 201-881-1450
Salem County Women's Services P.O. Box 125 Salem NJ 08079 Business #: 609-935-8012 Hotline/Crisis: 609-935-6655
Domestic Violence Crisis Intervention Unit P.O. Box 2191 Toms River NJ 08753 Business #: 908-244-5353 Hotline/Crisis: 908-244-5353
Providence House - Ocean County P.O. Box 104 Toms River NJ 07740 Business #: 908-244-6257 Hotline/Crisis: 908-244-8259 Toll Free #: (800)246-246-8910
Cumberland County Women's Center P.O. Box 921 Vineland NJ 08360 Business #: 609-691-3713 Hotline/Crisis: 609-691-3713
Providence House/ Willingboro Shelter of Catholic Charities P.O. Box 496 Willingboro NJ 08046 Business #: 609-871-2003 Hotline/Crisis: 609-871-7551
2006-10-04 01:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about your situation, its brave of you to make that decision because many women continue to stay in such situations and don't have the strength to go. I was in same situation but I left 5 months after the marriage. I live in London but am sure you might get a place where you are. If its very bad you could start by calling the police who may have contacts and they may also help you get a refuge place close to you. Emotional abuse is not acceptable and no human should ever go through that. Good Luck..
2006-10-04 07:35:38 · answer #2 · answered by sallysleek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotional abuse only happens with your permission so its not really abuse. If you had the strength to leave on your own you probably would not have been affected by language. I am sure there are women's shelters in New Jersey. I am also sure the have their hands full with significant abuse, broken bones, bruises and black eyes. Real Abuse.
Perhap your attitude toward him might be a contributing factor to his.
2006-10-04 07:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont know about NJ however I can tell you that you are not alone. Stay strong
2006-10-04 08:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by furbee_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋