do you trust her?

Question

A couple of days ago i found some things that i thought was very peculiar in my fiance's bag.It was a Hotel bill for a nite in town very closed to where she leave.I notice in the bag there was some contraceptive pills that was address to a man as well,when i confronted her she told me that she check in with a girl friend and the pill was given to her sometime ago after her miss carrige and that was confirm by the date on the bottle.I find it very difficult to belief her as they meet more often then i meet her.Please advise me of this situatian as i do not know what to do.

Answer 1

Better ask her or review your relationship.

Answer 2

Without more to go on, I'd say it's possible she is telling the truth. It sounds odd enough to be truthful. I'll try to play the other side since everyone is saying she's a cheater and we don't even know what she works at or what country.

In some countries, it's alright for a woman to use a prescription in someone else's name...especially if that's who's giving it for free or paying for it. She could be using charity in that case for her health. So she can be healthier for herself and you?

The hotel bill. Where else is safe for two women friends to stay, if not at their parents' houses? I wouldn't want them to go have a night on the town and stay at a random place. That said, how old are you both? I guess you guys party? Relax, and have fun. Be gentle to her with your questions. Innocent till proven guilty.

Answer 3

Wow, very suspicious. Sit down with her and tell her how concerned you are. Tell her you want to trust her but the evidence is screaming that she is guilty. Ask her a lot of questions, and see if she stumbles her answers or messes up. If she is guilty she will get very insulted and not want to answer. If she is innocent she will answer the questions because she has nothing to hide.

If you are still worried, hire an investigator to check up on her. BUT he ready for any consequences...if she was telling the truth she will feel betrayed you did that. But if she was lying then at least you know now!

Answer 4

I'm sorry but I think she's messing around on you. I work in a hotel and I can tell you that people (especially local people) usually check in for one thing (not all the time but more often than not). I'd look into it a little further just to make sure though. Good luck.

Answer 5

Well to be Honest with you ,It sounds like your fiance is Lying threw her Teeth,As the saving goes!Why was that man,s name on Bottle of pills also?!!And thats bullshit about motel story,and of course friends will back her up on her lies,tHeir probably with her when she,s partying and meeting her lover or lovers!I Smell a rat,Big time!Smarten up,Once a cheater,always a cheater,Better you find out now than before you marry her and the ***** wuold end up with everything you owne,My friend,Please,"Wake Up And SMELL THE COFFEE"!good Luck,Hollywood

Answer 6

Get a private investigator to check on her to make sure shes not cheating on you. It would cost you some money now, but could save a marriage going sour.

Answer 7

I learned a long time ago not to trust a woman. If you try to trust them they will dump on you. Nothing personal ladies. If you feel there is some thing wrong there most likely is. Listen to your gut feeling

Answer 8

Do you obviously not so the the reasonable thing and move on find your self a real woman

Answer 9

if i were u i wouldnt trust her
i mean all the singls are there
shes cheating on u
thats what i think

Answer 10

Get someone else, she is running around on you. You don't trust her anyway.