i have been seeing a guy and after a few dates he said he needed time on his own but i think i may be pregnant, do i tell him or should i wait?
2006-10-04 00:00:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Tell him, he has a right to know. But then if he decides he still needs time on his own, just let the spineless tw*t have his time. If its a case that you are pregnant, go it alone. Us woman are made of tougher stuff than that. Hopefully you'll get support from your friends and family, you don't need him, and your the one that's left with a beautiful baby that he'll miss out on. Good luck, whatever happens.
2006-10-04 01:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should confront him first about why he wants time on his own as it sounds to me as if that's a polite way of saying he's not that interested. If you've only been seeing him a short time hunny and you think your pregnant you really should think more carefully about your actions, and use protection!
Maybe he is put off by the fact that you've only been out a few times and already slept with him, believe it or not some guys don't like that, it can be a turnoff.
Question is, if you are pregnant, do you really want to keep it? He may not want the responsibility of having a child with someone he doesn't really know. Could you cope with a baby by yourself?
2006-10-04 00:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by crazychicklisieloo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and see for sure. It's no good telling him you're pregnant if it's just a false alarm. Do a pregnancy test or go to your GP for a test. If you are pregnant, decide whether you really want this baby. If you do, gently let the guy know, don't make him feel trapped
2006-10-04 00:05:08 · answer #3 · answered by moroaero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should surely tell him once u r sure abt the same . It would a good way to judge him also from his reaction . You cud also see how supportive he is abt the whole thing else u ll have to deal with it on ur own so its better u confirm it asap . If he knew he was having unprotected sex then he is very much responsible for u .
2006-10-04 00:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by PP1234 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do a test. Then make decisions based on the posibility that you may be 'in it' on your own. If you tell him without being sure, it will sound like you are trying to trap him into staying with you.
2006-10-04 00:04:34 · answer #5 · answered by annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you tell him now he may think you are trying to trap him in to a full on relationship, its obvious from your question that he is not sure you are the one for him, wait till you know for sure if you are pregnant and take it from there, hope this helps and good luck
2006-10-04 00:20:15 · answer #6 · answered by The Mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out if you are really pregnant before you tell him. otherwise if you tell him now and you turn up to not be pregnant he will say that you lied just to get back together with him and to trap him.
2006-10-04 00:09:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you have a positive pregnancy test. If you tell him before that you will scare him off for good, esp if it turns out you are not.
"I think" is not definate enough to be telling anyone
2006-10-04 00:03:41 · answer #8 · answered by OriginalBubble 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for what? Tell him straight. He slept with you and you have every right to ask him, either this way or that way. You have to face the answer. Sooner the better so that you can make your choices.
2006-10-04 00:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by Freddie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only tell him if you definitely are. Do not scare him unnecessarily. He sounds liek he is backing off as it is I don't think telling him right now will help. Find out for definite and then approahc him about it if you need to.
2006-10-04 00:10:43 · answer #10 · answered by kerrykinsmalosevich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋