She thinks I'm fighting wif her and she is gonna make her mom hold a special meeting for her and me. It's immature, I know.
So my question is, how should I act during this meeting? Should I act scared or should I act mature and bold? I totally need help.
Also, how should I act BEFORE the meeting? It will be held about two weeks from now. So how should I acknoledge her? Should I even acknowledge her at all? If I have to acknowledge her, should I act totally sweet or show my dislike? Should I keep talking to her at a minimum???
I need to be much better than her in attitude and in maturity level. So somebody please help.
2006-10-03 23:42:13 · 8 answers · asked by LAVELLE! :] 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Also, she can be horribly sweet, too. So how can I beat her in the attitude level???
2006-10-03 23:43:15 · update #1
None of these answers are helping yet. (the first three, i mean.) I need a totally detailed answer on how to behave before, during and afetr the meeting.
2006-10-03 23:51:46 · update #2
After the meeting, i mean.
2006-10-03 23:52:17 · update #3
Also, this isn't a competition. OK??? I just need to seem better than her. If I do, the adults will have a better impression of me.
2006-10-04 15:49:25 · update #4
Is there a competition for some prize?since I sense that there is an air of competition between you two and you may not be truly sincere with yourself over this matter,which further isolate you from your true intellect,everyone has an advantage at some point over another,the disadvantages comes when you do not act as your true self,you give up your sense of reasoning and try to compete with someone that is in a league of their own,it is like George foreman trying to fight Muhammad Ali using his style of boxing,this girl may be a total fake but if you try to outdo her you may just make her look even better than she really is remember who you are before you met and try not to be rude at the meeting ,even compliment some of her good side,be apologetic ,it works for me when my husband is wrong and he is still acting stupid.it confuses and emotionally defeats opponents and onlookers are dumbfounded at your humble approach,do the math and good luck.
2006-10-04 00:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by delmy d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on her mother too.If her mother herself is mature and if you feel that she is rational enough then there is no need of you compensating to her daughter;just act responsibly in front of her.Prepare what you are going to say in front of her and present your case like an advocate Do not show off your anger in front of her.If she is irrational, tell YOUR parents.
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2006-10-04 00:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by Cephalic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Behave maturely.
2006-10-03 23:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by bukky e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to that girls friend and collect the details about her then react according to that girls character
2006-10-03 23:57:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not call her before then, ask her why she thinks you're fighting with her, resolve whatever it is there and then, and tell her you have forgiven her.
2006-10-03 23:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by titi n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself throughout your stay there.
2006-10-03 23:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by my flame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself..........act normally as how you act this few days.
2006-10-03 23:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be polite....
2006-10-04 00:17:47 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋