how do i learn to put up with all this,separating ways is not definitely an option since i am just mad about my kids and i dont want them to be raised by single parent.
2006-10-03 22:15:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
YOU HELP HER IN THE ROUTINE WORKS. ALSO ADVISE HER TO BE HYGIENE IN A POLITE WAY. SHOW HER TO ONE SOCIOLOGIST
2006-10-04 01:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
didn't you notice this before the 2nd child? And what about before the 1st? Well why don't you get a video camcorder, start taking pictures if she is so awful, and sit her down & show them to her.,and say "hey this is what our life is like with you", and I want it to change. If she does great, if not, take the kids & leave for a few days. She will either clean up her/& the house, or she likes it that way., and you have proof that she will not take care of the kids. Another big question?, for you, are you sure she is not sick? What I mean is, could she be going to Post Menstrual Sydrome? She could be going through depression from having the kids,house.pets.etc and she needs help, and is over whelmed. Get her some help, before something could happen to her, or the kids. Please!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-03 22:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a problem not with her but with you. You don't love her enough. You are cynical about her and failing to look at your own heart. No woman is lazy or how you discribe, it is because she is got a problem of not being loved.
I attest to Abrahamn.. (the one who answered before me). He is so right about the approch to your problem. Stop complaining and start thinking where you will have to make adjustments and changes.
There is a famous song about "Man in the mirror" You change yourself, everything else changes along. Your wife is easy to change only if you shower her your love.
Try it Mr. Husband
2006-10-06 12:34:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite some of her friends over to your house. Dont help in cleaning up and make some excuse like you have work.
Or else teach you children (before you wife) without being rude, that personal hygeine and cleanliness only will keep you healthy and will earn you respect in society.
2006-10-03 22:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by indiangal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear try to understand the real problem. it may be because she is facing some physical or other problem. she is your God given lfe partner. Many problems arise if wifes feel that her husband does not love her.Therefore please CHECK whether you truly love her according to her expectations. she expects you to understand her rather than blaming her.If that does not happen she may not tell you the real problem. So try to know it from her in love.If you are like some others who critisise or insult or do such things, plese ask forgiveness and amend your ways.Put yourself in her shoes and think whether the way you treat her is good or not.If she has misunderstanding about you try to change it .Love her then she will be an asset to you.Love does wonders. Often we do not realise that our bad behaviours are the real cause.Even if this is not the case try to help her out . If any one has health problem people do not feel like working. They will feel like lying down.
2006-10-04 06:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by abrahamnarela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now,Your wife might have been raised in such surrounding.Try talking to her alone andmake a cleanliness plan so as to how the house must be kept spick and span.Enrol your wife in cooking classes so she gets interested in cooking.Dont divorce or leave your wife.Try exercising with her to gear her spirits.Also give her 10 Rs a day to encourage her.
2006-10-03 22:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 11:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by wach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of complaining about it to her or nagging her...maybe try talking to her. If that doesn't work, if you're in the position to do it, hire a maid...take her out and make an appointment to have her pampered and then compliment her until you're blue in the face.
2006-10-03 22:23:22 · answer #8 · answered by tikizgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She wasn't so lazy when you were making those kids you care so much about, maybe you 're the lazy one, women need to be reminded that their mate loves them ,,, when was the last time you did a little something to show her how not be lazy.....
2006-10-03 22:25:58 · answer #9 · answered by DEB D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should rethink that. Is it better for them to grow up in a clean, safe living environment or the one they live in now?
Is she depressed? Sick? Handicapped? If yes to any of these then there is help but if no, then I see no reason for putting up with it.
2006-10-03 22:19:33 · answer #10 · answered by DutchApplePie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
very rare people get love from their loved ones.God sometimes is very partial in distributing love .Dont wait for her love and care, just do ur work urself and pay attention on kids.they shd not feel lonely.
2006-10-03 23:04:31 · answer #11 · answered by dentist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋