Advice, please!?

Question

I have been with my fiancee for a little over 7 years-through them, we had good times and bad-we moved in with my dad in jan of 2005, things went ok, but my dad now hates him because we used to fight ALOT-we stopped fighting pretty much, but recently my fiancee went to jail for non payment of child support (long story)and he had to borrow 200.00 from my dad to get out-my dad told my sister and she freaked! my fiancee said at that point he was moving out because of this-I freaked because I did not want this-I could not move out because i am in school and my dad is helping me financially-I was worried because I did not want us to drift-he said we wouldnt-I have seen and talked to him since then (about a month)he still calls me babe, we have sex about once a week, and says he still loves me and wants me back someday-he moved in with this girl and I have overheard him say I love you to her and now he is calling her babe-I confronted him-he says its nuthin and His feelings have not changed

I forgot to add that we broke up a week after he moved out-but he is still telling me that if he cant be with me he doesnt want anybody

Answer 1

His actions are speaking louder than his words. He's not in love with you--he's in LUST with you. He just wants you for what you can give him. I'd drop him like a hot potato. You're just setting yourself up for heartache if you don't. He's proving that he doesn't want to remain faithful to you now, so if he's running around on you now, chances are good it would happen if the two of you got married. Cut your losses and put this relationship behind you, no matter how long the two of you have been together. It takes two people to make a relationship, and it obviously isn't happening here.

Answer 2

First I would like to say whatever the story is with the child support should be a big flag waving to you. There is not a reason to support your children whatever the amount is. If he can't take care of his prior responsibilities then he will not take care of you. Put this relationship in your past. Stay in school and good luck

Answer 3

hes playing both sides of the fence,when u tell someone u love them it does mean something be done with him he sounds like a looser anyway espcially if u had to moove in with uer parrent so use werent on the streat? u sound like u have real goals go for them besides do u want to deal with his child support problems,my brother is slowe mentaly and he pays his child support no long storie about it moove on its obvious if u overheard him saying i love u to someone else

Answer 4

Terminate the engagement ASAP. I'd do it in writing for legal reasons. Get this guy away from you. Tell your dad you know you made a mistake, but that you know he understands that's part of growing up. Finish school. Learn from this experience!

Answer 5

It is the hardest thing in the world but you should look elsewhere. Your family has the right idea and although you love him He sounds like he is more dependant than in love. You deserve someone who complimants your personality and encourages your dreams.

Answer 6

Time to move on!

Answer 7

move on what happened to the 20 gs

Answer 8

He has probably found someone else, so maybe you should just move on. Maybe he just likes the sex you are giving him.

Answer 9

Are you kidding! He's got it made. You are a giver and he is a taker. Keep it up and he'll be happy, but you won't. Get over him.

Answer 10

funny that the name is bountyhuntress, were you the one got the reward