I was really happy with Tom but a friend came onto me and i couldn't say no and now i feel guilty should i tell my boyfriend tom or not?
2006-10-03 22:08:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you still have feelings for you bf, keep quiet about it and let me pass at the same time avoiding the friend who came onto you.
If you still have feelings and feel guilty, then tell him and apologize sincerely. Sure he will be mad but at least you were truthful.
If you do not have feelings anymore for your bf, kiss and tell.
All the best!
2006-10-03 22:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by .:Lyd:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you going to do it again or was it a one time stupid mistake? Is your relationship worth loosing over this mistake? If you tell him, can you guys work things out? I think everyone would like to know if they've been cheated on but also what you don't know, won't hurt you. Are you sure you're not pregnant or have an STD? Every relationship is different and some people will tell you to tell him and others won't, and only you can make that decision. Ask yourself those questions above and more and decide from there. If you do, don't take him on national tv and tell him. It's funny to watch but don't put Tom through that.
2006-10-03 22:16:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
come clean so you can clear your mind of guilt...you might be afraid that he may say it's over...but it was already over when you slept with someone else... i don't mean to sound harsh...i'm just being real don't live with those negative thoughts that are constantly haunting you. it's a sad situation no doubt...because he may not look at you as the same theres going to be some trust issues and so forth ...all of this for a night of fun....i would come clean the worse that could happen is a break up...if it's not meant then it's not meant...who knows he may forgive you but you need that burden lifted up off you...you may not feel good about what you've done...but you'll feel good about getting it off your chest... *good luck*
2006-10-03 22:36:00 · answer #3 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing Tom will be is hurt. What would he be gaining by knowing about this...nothing.... but if you plan on staying with him...smarten up.... there's just no need to cheat , unhappy? move on..
2006-10-03 22:18:17 · answer #4 · answered by DEB D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To error is human,knowbody's perfect ,dont tell him if you truly love him and are sincere about the future of your relationship ,dont do it again, stay faithful, and if you two were meant to be then time will tell,oh but kharma will kick your a**!! So be aware, she is just around the corner!!
2006-10-03 22:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by luisa_duran2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You use the term "was" when u said you were happy with Tom.
Obviously you arent now. Tell him you cheated and give him the option to break up or stay with you.
Hope you used a condom
2006-10-03 22:11:50 · answer #6 · answered by Feline Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell no one. Do it again too. Nothing sexier than than a girl giving it to two guys at the same time. Hit it, lick it and quit it.
2006-10-03 22:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is yes, you should tell him. honesty is mandatory when it comes to building a healthy and happy relationship. if he really loves you, he will give you a second chance. otherwise, hey, tons of fish in the sea! and if he does give you a second chance, learning how to resist temptation won't hurt one bit. good luck!
2006-10-03 22:16:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it as a bad dream and try not to repeat it.
I think the worst thing you can do is it tell your boy friend.
So tell no one and forget it.
2006-10-04 01:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by Explore_Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ...don't tell him and what goes around comes around one day he will do the same ...so both of u will be even so u won't be feel guilty
2006-10-03 22:11:03 · answer #10 · answered by black cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋