I try and tell her that she is not inferior and that I love her as she is, and my family never ever made out that they feel superior to her family. We come from the same type of family and lived in the same suburb.
Is this normal behaviour for a woman to feel like this about her husband and his family?
2006-10-03 21:47:45 · 16 answers · asked by hoarfen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hi there its so good for once that a man is praising his wife and not putting her down there must be something that is in her past thats coming back from something and causing chaos in her mind ,and it could be fom a friend or somewhere else it must be really difficult for you to sit there and watch youre lady go through this ,talk to her again and ask her why she feels like this and if you are patient .......and i know that is the last thing you need to hear ,sheshould open up and explain whats going on in her head good luck with this and i hope you both stay happy ,and give youre wife a hug ..take care xx,
2006-10-03 22:19:09 · answer #1 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start inviting friends and family members for dinners etc and then give lavish complements about the whole affair to your wife, her cooking etc. When ever you have the chance compliment her boost her ego and at the same time always tell her how much you love her and value her relationship and also friendship, other than just being a wife also.
2006-10-03 21:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by ashok kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is interesting to read your question, and then to read the additional information you gave, you say 'i love her as she is' this is great but how is she? something has happened to make her feel like this, it would be good for the two of you to talk it through and see if there is a reason, you must take steps to ensure you are not inadvertantly making her feel inferior, take her out more and make her feel like a woman, get her to feel good about herself and she will become stronger.
2006-10-03 22:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by pottydotty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me thinks you have made her feel this way.
Actions can often speak louder than words and you must have really put her down without realising it. Talk with her not at her or down to her.
Be careful of your body language.
Look very carefully at how you may have lorded it over her, perhaps without realising it.
Double check your parents/family havent done any of the above, behind your back. Talk to her and ask her if they have done anything to make her feel this way.
LISTEN to her and let her say her piece. Dont pounce and say to her "oh they wouldnt have said that".. "they didnt mean that" ... "don't be silly" .......... take what she says on board and do something about it.
Get off your high horse.
2006-10-03 22:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by Feline Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 22:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people who feel inferior usually do so because someone is pointing out specific instances to make them feel that way through some sort of ridicule. it may be from her upbringing. the way to rebuild self esteem is to allow her to either get education to better herself or encourage a skill she has.
Praising her natural talents will also help ... her cooking, her decorating, her shopping skills, money management ..whatever she does that is a visible benefit to your homelife.
its an uphill battle, and if not overcome, will probably lead to depression
2006-10-03 22:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not nurmal if, both of u really love each other cos, love is a thin from the heart. u make her feel that in away it my b the way u talk to her like u know everythin
moreso you hav to bring her to your level nd keep family out of your marriage life.
look man this where problem begin in marriage life nd will pille up so b4 its get out hand rectify the way u talk,behave,show at home.
take care nd i wish u the best in life
2006-10-03 22:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by demoheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I wonder why your wife feels inferior to you when you have to tell people you're better educated than her.
2006-10-03 22:25:37 · answer #8 · answered by Duckie64804 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are her strong points? What is she better in than you? Find them, point them out to her and praise her. She had self esteem issues which is all too common in women. Tell her to get rid of those dumb glossy magazines and take some classes to build up her self confidence.
2006-10-03 21:51:15 · answer #9 · answered by DutchApplePie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, sometimes, but you can always encourage her interests. If she's very young let her know she has lots of years to come to learn about the world. You chose her...you felt her perfect for you. Your parents raised you to find your perfect girl. Let her know she is. ;)
2006-10-03 21:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋