thank you so much for all previous answers i feel really encouraged. so i decided to takea back seat for a while, thot maybe take a break and do other things. Afterall even after i called him , he still wasn't in a hurry to come back.
ps: i did tell him to leave me alone for a while, that i would call when i was ready to talk. But still, he really should have come home.
anyway, he has since called twice and sent me 2 e-mails saying he didn't mean to hurt me. in the past i have forgiven him so easily . i feel maybe this is what he is expecting this time..
.truth is i love him deeply...more than i've ever loved anyone else but this is the second time he has disappointed me...
i keep thinking we were together for almost 1 and half years and he was my first.....maybe i should just explore the world a bit more....i really don't know how we can patch this up if at all possible!?
i'm not sure what to do people....
2006-10-03 21:34:31 · 7 answers · asked by robert 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's messing you about, dump him and move on. Dont be a desperate doormat.
2006-10-03 22:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by Annie M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he may not have cheated on you at this hotel at this time-but ONE thing IS certain,once a cheat always a cheat,sorry m'dear,it is a fact of life.You are doing the right thing at the moment,taking a back seat,keeping a little distance etc,etc-and yes,maybe you should explore a bit more,there is a whole world out there for you,you may not get the chance again,especially if you decide to have children,so go for it wholeheartedly and enjoy.You have a good head on your shoulders,dont let it be ruined by the actions of an inconsiderate man who has cheated on you in the past,and is likely to do so in the future.Best of luck whatever you decide:-)
2006-10-04 04:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the only one in love in this relationship. manipulating the relationship by controlling behavior will not make it better. i understand that your "first" is a special relationship and you share a bond, however, he has cheated on the relationship within the first 6 months while most relationships are very "hot". he has broken your trust and you have unrealistic expectations that he will change. ask yourself, if he was my girlfriend's b/f, what would i advise her to do? i think you would advise her to dump the cheat and find someone who would be faithful. wouldn't you?
trust has to be earned, he has betrayed yours twice.
2006-10-04 04:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself if you can and really want to make it work, can you be in a relationship where trust is lacking if you do not have trust you have nothing at all. this is your call, explore and discover is my advice
2006-10-04 04:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him... hold on to him... do you know that the person you leve most is sometimes the person you hate??? just forget the paa.. you'll regret to let go the person you love....
2006-10-04 04:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you'll have to sort out for yourself.
2006-10-04 04:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by dot&carryone. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmm no
2006-10-04 04:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by gary_george48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋