2006-10-03 21:23:18 · 17 answers · asked by RAVEN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Every hodiday...birthday ect...my wife asks me what do I want...give me ideas. I love her to death but it drives me crazy. I hate to tell her what I would like because I know she hasn't the money for to buy it,then she feels bad. Any gift comeing from my wife,will come from her heart....These are the gifts I love. So to answer your question......a surprise gift.
2006-10-04 00:32:15 · answer #1 · answered by R W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not married, but when I was engaged, I really appreciated surprise gifts. While asking for a specific gift can help guide to what you want, the surprise of having something given you might not have ever thought of asking for is exciting. And if she ever dropped hints about things she wanted, I'd do my best to find it, but always added something as a surprise. Sometimes whimsical like a jelly bean dispenser or scented candles, sometimes fun like tickets to a play, concert or dinner and dancing.
2006-10-04 04:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by Carl S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask. Better to get the right gift, than to surprise her with the wrong one.
2006-10-04 04:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Surprise. Unless you've given him surprise gifts in the past and they are collecting dust somewhere, it's the best way to go.
2006-10-04 04:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like to have present suprise. It makes me feel good and excited.
I do give her surprise too. Like booking a resturant then fetch her straight from her office to have a good meal together during her birthday.
2006-10-04 04:46:00 · answer #5 · answered by Adam S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't give surprise gifts unless you see him eyeing it or comtemplate buying it. Otherwise he might not really like what you picked out for him. It would be a waste then.
2006-10-04 07:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wives are better at gifts then men. Just think if you asked for something that wasnt expensive and she was going to go out and buy you a new car. lol
2006-10-04 04:26:56 · answer #7 · answered by teneesha2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Roll over offer up the big A and let him roger it, you both get a surprise that way God Bless You
2006-10-04 04:24:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
just get me a prepaid visa gift card and i'm happy. then its a surprise plus i can get what i want at the same time
2006-10-04 04:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by joe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd rather be asked if it is a big present and kind of pricey, but if it is small inexpensive then I'd prefer it being a surprise.
Actually, I usually drop hints around and before birthdays like - 'You know what I could do with?'
2006-10-04 04:31:42 · answer #10 · answered by dot&carryone. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋