i really dont understand what it is - i love going out with my friends and catchingup having a good girlie chat so why cant i accept my boyfriend likes doing the same - playing pool and having a laugh with his mates ?
2006-10-03 20:41:19 · 10 answers · asked by Pebbles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have the same problem with my gf and me...I love to hang with just the guys or even catch up with a girl but if she wants to hang with her friends or anything I cant stand it....Ive come to the conclusion that Im just an extremely jealous person...and Kind of controlling in a sense...might be the same for you...dont be afraid to admit jealousy...shows you care atleast
2006-10-03 20:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by A Sad Guy... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity. Don't let it destroy your relationship! I lost an amazing relationship due to the fact that I just couldn't let my ex have fun. He had a really short leash with me! Finally, he had enough. I learned too late for that relationship but now I'm in a healthy relationship and we both spend time doing our own thing. It is good for BOTH of you to grow relationships with others. Enjoy your time apart... you'll have more to share when you are together.
By the way, insecurity is not sexy or flattering...
Good Luck!
2006-10-04 08:05:55 · answer #2 · answered by sitasaysgo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Got to adjust honnie!
2006-10-04 03:57:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you are jealous.i think you need to trust him more.maybe you dont get enough of him.pleassssse let him enjoy his life.it will be difficult as you are very insecure.but slowly it will be fine.
2006-10-04 03:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by Sharmi G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity and immaturity
2006-10-04 03:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your jealous of his relationship with his friends.
2006-10-04 03:44:37 · answer #6 · answered by Dorrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you're affraid of loosing him. you know what you do when you are with your friends and he's not around but, you don't know what he's doing with his friends when your not around.
2006-10-04 03:47:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are selfish and thinking just for yourself.Let him do what he wants.If he is your boyfriend doesn't mean that he is your slave!
2006-10-04 03:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you just know he's telling them how rubbish you are in bed!
2006-10-04 03:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by spadgeroo2012 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
insecurity within yourself. also, you don't trust him.
2006-10-04 03:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by marincaligirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋