used to be so energetic, and outgoing. She loved going places, being outside and all that now she has no motivation to do anything. She sits on the internet all day pretty much. She dont ever want to go shopping, go for walks,exercise,work, she just seems down all the time. Is it from sitting in the house? How can i get her out to do things? How can I get her to be more motivated????? ADVICE NOW PLEASE!!
2006-10-03 20:19:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well, play with her .. .u know good playing- interaction. be her best friend. heck be her "sibling". she is in need for someone to be able to talk to. to spend time with. so, if u gave her those, i bet she'll be motivated again.. trust me i know. if this doesnt work, then its either u do it wrongly or its not the problem i persume i may be. no guarantee though. thank you = D
2006-10-03 22:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by crazy dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be worried that she is depressed. Talk to her and really find out what is going on. Remember to be easy on her, depression can take many forms and the reason for it can be silly to you but, very real for your friend. If she starts giving things away, watch her carefully. And maybe she has found something on the internet that makes her feel good. Let her know that no matter what it is you are there for her. Good luck
2006-10-04 04:18:56 · answer #2 · answered by raspberryflavr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did something traumatic recently happen to her? She sounds depressed severely about something.. You may want to consider making her a doctor's appointment and have her doctor determine if she is clinically depressed this situation can easily be resolved once you get to the source of her problem...There are several types of prescriptions that can make or break the situation. Please try it I would hate for a perfectly good relation go from sugar to sh*& in weeks when you can readily handle it,,,,
2006-10-04 03:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by chubbie dumplins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like this person is depressed about something...get her talking first of all and figure out whats going on.
2006-10-04 03:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by hwall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her, try to find out what is bothering her, it must be something! if she doesnt wanna talk, let her be, but dont neglect her...she'll get bored of staying home and eventually decide to do something about it!
2006-10-04 03:24:58 · answer #5 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is depressed..im going thur the same thing...i need help to..
2006-10-04 03:33:27 · answer #6 · answered by Stacey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the computer out. take all the chances, push her make a deal with her. bribe?
2006-10-04 03:31:45 · answer #7 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get hr a pet!
2006-10-04 03:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by lala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its either she is depressed or really high....or she is addicted to myspace.
2006-10-04 03:22:16 · answer #9 · answered by Krusd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋