2006-10-03 20:19:22 · 16 answers · asked by maryam 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
How can your brother break your heart exactly? That would suggest you have feelings other than normal sibling ones. I would imagine you would have to unless he has forced you into something?
2006-10-03 21:03:25 · answer #1 · answered by rondavous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all forgiveness is a process and you do it when you are good and ready. It is something that cannot be rushed. You may be perfectly justified in feeling angry. Forgiveness does not mean “What you did is okay to me”. It simply means I no longer am willing to carry around pain in response to your action. Being a vessel of anger carries a high price, so the sooner you let go the better it is for you. It is not an easy task at times, none the less.
2006-10-03 20:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are waiting on a beach
For a healing word to come
Maybe an apology in a bottle
Maybe a flare that says I'm sorry
and the hurting leaves you numb
will you forgive?
will you forget?
will you live what you know?
He left his rights
will you leave yours?
you don't understand it
let it go
You are waiting on a beach
This is where the east meets west
And as another sun sets on your anger
The darkness laughs as the wound destroys
and it turns your prayers to noise
Will you forgive?
Wil you forget?
will you live what you know?
He left his rights
will you leave yours?
you won't understand it
let it go
This bitterness you hide
it seeps into your soul
and it steals your joy
til it's all you know
let it go
Will you forgive?
will you forget?
will you live what you know?
he left his rights
will you leave yours?
you won't understand it
let it go
Will you forgive?
will you forget?
will you live what you know?
Beneath the cross
you hear his words
"Father forgive them"
and you know
you can't understand it
let it go
Newsboys "Let it Go"
2006-10-03 20:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. The person is like any other homeosapien on the face of the planet. It just happens that it is your moms' son and your brother. Forgive forever...don't forgive and keep hating. That defeat's the purpose. If he willing and you are willing to change, anything can happen.
2006-10-03 20:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by evets.pilot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant forget your brother, unless u suffer from memory loss, but u can forgive anyone, if u are truly ready to, & truly want to forgive , if u dont forgive sum 1 it usually builds up hate & takes up too mcuh energy, but it is hard to forgive, it takes time....
2006-10-03 20:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by dapoet89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how many times it happens.
Once or twice yea, but in my case where I have had a sibling lie to me, BIG LIES, many many times, No. You can't forgive them because they will just do it again and again.
:o)
Jerry
2006-10-03 23:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes forgive and forget
2006-10-03 20:30:27 · answer #7 · answered by Answerer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he molested you no... if he stole money from you ... make sure you put your money in a safe when he is around, but forgive... anything other than the first... unconditional love is a must.
2006-10-03 20:29:31 · answer #8 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes maryam.when u 4giv,u find it easier 2 relate positively 2 life as a whole,just let it go n ul c how free ul feel within.
2006-10-03 20:28:52 · answer #9 · answered by baby boo 2day 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister did. i will never ever forgive her no matter what. i will go to my grave with a broken heart. she did it to me too.
2006-10-04 00:46:32 · answer #10 · answered by cadaholic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋